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Monday, August 31, 2020

Journal: On Cataracts & Old Photos & New Puppies


Teensy and Tiger aren’t exactly friends, but they do manage to nap on the porch at the same time without any major hullaballoos.

Last week, as usual, I went on scanning pictures.

Here’s Dorcas in the little suit I made for her from the leftovers of my own suit.  I made them for us to wear to Kenny and Annette’s (Larry’s brother and sister-in-law’s) wedding, September 16, 1984.  Dorcas was two.  Somewhere, we even found a little lavender purse to go with her outfit.




The skirt and jacket were of lilac linen.  The vest and jacket’s back collar were of plum velvet, the blouse was of plum silk with a teal blue stripe, and the attached bow was teal blue silk.  The jacket even had tiny shoulder pads.

And no, the outfit was not washable.  We took a pretty, lacy bib to the wedding reception... and any time Dorcas wore the suit to church thereafter, we hurried home after the service and removed and hung the suit.  So we had it dry-cleaned rarely, considering it was worn by a 2-year-old.  She loved that suit.  She called it her ‘lady suit’.

The children called the tree in the next pictures ‘the peek-a-boo’ tree.  Our house sat on a corner, and the tree grew right inside the intersection of the sidewalks.  These were taken in the spring of 1985.






Tuesday afternoon when I called Loren to tell him I’d be bringing him some food at about 4:00, as usual, I asked if he’d remembered to use his eyedrops. 

“Yes,” he said, but then didn’t seem to know where the bottle was.

“It’s the white bottle on the table, right where you sit to eat,” I told him.

“Well, I have a bottle that I found in my bathroom,” he told me.

I promised to look at it when I got there, thinking he’d probably pulled out one of those Equate (store brand) lubricating drops.  I hoped the new bottle of eyedrops weren’t lost. 

Lo and behold, he’d found the original bottle Eye Physicians had sent, back on August 10th!  Of course, then he was sorry all over again that he’d spent $52 on another bottle.  I assured him that it would be good to have an extra bottle on hand (though I doubt he’ll ever need that much – but he always did like to stock up on things; so he was content with that thought).

His first cataract surgery was Wednesday morning.  He was a bit worried about it.  I kept reassuring him; cataract surgery is about 99% successful, after all, and patients rarely feel any pain.  But I have to say, I’d sho’ ’nuff be worried about it, if it was my eyeball going under the carving knife. 

We got there a little before 8:30 a.m.  The Eye Surgery building is attached to the Eye Physicians building, where Loren had his previous eye exams.

When he signed in, he could not find his Medicare card.  It was in his wallet a couple of weeks ago when I took pictures of all his cards, the better to help with his finances; I don’t know what has become of it.  I need to have a closer look at that wallet. 

The receptionist said she couldn’t simply go over to the Eye Physicians office through their connecting hallway and retrieve the information; employees are restricted from crossing from one office to the other because of COVID-19.  Good grief.  Nobody in either building was even sick, nor had they been sick.  I am really, really tired of this idiocy.

So... I drove back to Loren’s house to see if I could find another wallet he might have put the card into.

I could not.  But since I had both my laptop and my tablet in the Jeep, I turned on the laptop, found the pictures I’d taken of all those cards, and sent them to my own email address, from whence I’d be able to retrieve them via tablet.  Then back to the Eye Surgery building I went, tablet in hand.

By the time I got there, the Eye Surgery manager had already walked over to the Eye Physicians office and collected the information.  The manager, presumably, is much less likely to spread coronavirus spores than the receptionist, nasty little soul that she is.  (Actually, she was quite nice to us.  If she spewed spores at us, it has not affected us yet.)

Loren had already been taken back for surgery.  The surgery itself would last only about ten minutes, but ‘prep’ would take about an hour. 

I wanted to sit in a nice little out-of-the-way corner of the large waiting room, but they wouldn’t allow it.  Instead, I had to sit on the east side in front of a bank of windows, and it felt like it was about 100° there.  Ugh.  It was only 70° outside!  Furthermore, that nice little out-of-the-way corner was much farther away from the other patients. 

If the goal is to spread people out as much as possible – i.e., ‘social distancing’ – wouldn’t it make more sense to keep all corners of a large waiting room open, rather than to push everyone into the same area?? 

Ugh, people are so totally senseless.  Even nice people.

I pulled my mask down off my nose.  Gotta breathe... gotta breathe... gotta breathe...

(I did leave it protecting my chinny-chin-chin.  If other people can be senseless, so can I.)

There was a large person on the opposite side of the waiting room, chin sunk down low on his chest, snoring like a walrus.  (Yes, walruses snore.)  I shudder to think what’s all over the inside of his face mask.

Over there on the front desk were two signs.  One showed how to cough into one’s elbow.  The other recommends elbow bumps, as opposed to handshakes. 

(( ... pause ... ))  

Ewwwww.

I uploaded some recently-scanned pictures to my Clothes Rack blog, pictures of the children, mostly, in clothes I had sewn for them.

This little outfit for Hannah (age 3, early 1984) was revamped from one of my own sweater-skirt sets that I wore in high school.  The sweater was originally store-bought.  I cut it down, made the front pocket from the hood, and added a couple of big buttons.  When I first made the skirt for myself, it was an A-line.  Cutting it down to a size four created enough extra fabric for a ruffle.  It sure would have been nice to have had a serger for the sweaters and double knit things I made back then.  Lacking that, I used the overlock stitch on my Bernina Record 830.



Hannah, upon seeing this picture, remarked, “I remember that outfit being a favorite.

And then Loren was done with surgery and being wheeled into the recovery room.  He needed little time to recover, as he was doing very well.  The nurse gave him a glass of cranberry juice (he had the choice of cranberry, orange, or apple), which tasted mighty good to him after having had nothing to eat or drink since midnight.

The doctor came in and checked on him, telling us that the surgery had gone perfectly.  The only thing of concern was that Loren’s blood pressure was 195/98 or so, making the alarm bell chime on the monitor.  The previous week at the doctor’s office, it had only been 120/70.  But each time they checked it, it came down a little more. 

They gave Loren a blue zippered bag with the things for his eyes – a clear shield with which to cover the eye while he sleeps, medical tape to hold the shield in place, plastic sunglasses that fit over his glasses, and his eyedrops.  And then they let him go home.

I gave him some breakfast – a little chunk of sliced French bread, a cranberry-orange muffin, and a bowl of maple-and-brown-sugar cream of wheat. 

He assured me he’d be all right if I left then, so at 10:35 a.m. I headed home. 

Teddy, 1 1/2


I talked to Loren on the phone at 2:00 that afternoon, and then took him some supper at a quarter ’til four.  He was doing well.  His eye looked very good; one couldn’t tell anything at all had happened to it – except it was clearer than it had been.

“Larry will come later to help you with that eye shield,” I told him as I prepared to go.

He started getting it out of the blue bag... wondered where to put it...

“Just keep all that stuff in the bag,” I advised, and started to add, “so you won’t lose them,” and then changed it to “so they won’t get lost.” 

Now, Loren may be confused about this and that, but he recognizes an implied reproof when he hears one.  He paused in putting things back into the bag and looked at me. 

I grinned, wagged a finger at him, and said, “Well, I tried to be tactful!”

He started laughing, and laughed even more when I added, as I headed down the stairs toward the front door, “I am not well-known for tact.”  Then, “I’m more liable to just be straightforward.”  And further, “Oh, well; most of the time, that’s better!”

He nodded in agreement, and then laughed again when I remarked, “Tact doesn’t run in the family, you know.”

That evening, while I went to church, Larry went to Loren’s house and stayed with him for a while to make sure he remembered his eyedrops and to get the clear shield taped in place over his eye before he went to bed.  Also, we thought he needed the company.  He’s to wear the shield for the first week whenever he sleeps, to prevent accidental rubbing and injury.

Larry took our blood pressure monitor with him and checked Loren’s blood pressure.  It was 165/90 – so it had gone down a bit, but was still a little high.  Hopefully it was simply a result of being nervous about the surgery.  We’ll keep a watch on it.

He was really happy and relieved to have one eye done, and to discover that it wasn’t painful at all, and by that evening, he could already see better.  That’s faster than expected.  It should continue to improve for several days.  Surgery on his other eye will be this coming Wednesday.  Hopefully, seeing better will keep him independent a little longer.  He can still drive well, and he still takes care of his large lawn and flower gardens.

I sat down at the piano and played a couple of songs – and while the familiar, dear old words played in my head, it made me cry, because... well, just because those words mean so much.  My brother with Alzheimer’s... the old pictures I’ve been scanning of the children, now all grown and with children of their own... 

Life can seem to drag, when there are troubles and trials.  But in reality, the years fly by!  I’m so thankful we have an eternity with the Lord to look forward to, where ‘death and pain shall be no more’. 

Just look at the sweet words Charles Gabriel, one of my favorite songwriters, wrote, way back in the early 1900s:

 

There’s One who can comfort when all else fails,
Jesus, blessed Jesus;
A Savior who saves tho’ the foe assails,
Jesus, blessed Jesus:
Once He traveled the way we go,
Felt the pangs of deceit and woe;
Who more perfectly then can know,
Than Jesus, blessed Jesus?
 

He heareth the cry of the soul distressed,
Jesus, blessed Jesus;
He healeth the wounded, He giveth rest,
Jesus, blessed Jesus:
When from loved ones we’re called to part,
When the tears in our anguish start,
None can comfort the breaking heart,
Like Jesus, blessed Jesus.
 

He never forsakes in the darkest hour,
Jesus, blessed Jesus;
His arm is around us with keeping pow’r,
Jesus, blessed Jesus:
When we enter the Shadow-land,
When at Jordan we trembling stand,
He will meet us with outstretched hand,
This Jesus, blessed Jesus.
 

What joy it will be when we see His face,
Jesus, blessed Jesus;
Forever to sing of His love and grace,
Jesus, blessed Jesus:
There at home on that shining shore,
With the loved ones gone on before,
We will praise Him forevermore,
Our Jesus, blessed Jesus.

 

Charles Hutchinson Gabriel is said to have written and/or composed between 7,000 and 8,000 songs, many of which are available in 21st century hymnals.  He used several pseudonyms, including Charlotte G. Homer, H. A. Henry, and S. B. Jackson.  He was born August 18, 1856, in Cedar County, Iowa, and died September 14, 1932, in Hollywood, Los Angeles, California.



In my scanning of old photos, I’m finding pictures of comforters and quilts I’d made that I had forgotten all about.  Fun to see them again.




I was into ruffles and lace, and not so much piecing – partly because there just wasn’t time.  This quilt might better be called a ‘comforter’, since I merely sewed wide ruffled lace onto giant petals, turned under the edges and sewed them onto the quilt top, sandwiched it with ruffles around the edges, turned the entire thing right side out, and tied it with yarn.  I made the curtains, too.  Yep, I loved ruffles and shirring and lace and bows.  Still do, for that matter.

Hannah’s nightgown is one of those I sewed for her and Dorcas, along with pajamas for the boys, before our trip to Mexico.  I used a peasant pattern, since there was no time to waste.  Each nightgown took about 30 minutes to make.  The pjs took about an hour.

When I went to Loren’s house Thursday afternoon, he was vacuuming.  I told him, “See, right there is the trouble with having your cataracts removed: It makes you realize you need to vacuum the carpet!”  😄

He is so delighted over how much better he can see.  He said, “It feels like I can see as well as I could when I was a kid!”  

So now he’s very much looking forward to having the other eye done.

He’d set up the water on his lawn, too, and assured me that he remembers to wear the special sunglasses they gave him at Eye Physicians any time he goes outside, and also when he’s in his living room with all the windows.  The eye looks very good.

He’s enjoying that living room and those windows now, because, what with his house on a bit of a hill northeast of town, he can see all the way to town, and a good distance across it.  He has a view of the airport, too, and likes to watch the planes taking off and landing.

Another drawback to being able to see better, however, is that he found some of his financial papers, began reading – and discovered Norma’s name on them.  He gathered them up, and came to my house that evening to show me, worrying that someone might have access to his accounts and finances.

I explained first that she has passed away, so there’s no worry there; and second, I have sent her death certificate to all of his financial institutions, and her name is no longer on any of his accounts.

About the time he seems to understand, we start the merry-go-round over again.  I just take the palomino and try to grab the ‘Free-Ride Ring’ each time I go past it.

Then, in a rare moment of deeper understanding, he said, “Well, your memory is good, and mine is not, so I’m going to need help with it.”

I assured him that Larry and I will help with whatever he needs, and he nodded, “I know you will.”

Another concern began to surface, so I said quickly, “There’s nothing at all to worry about; it’s all taken care of.  If there are things you don’t understand, the best thing to do is to leave it in God’s hands.”

That calmed him right back down, and he smiled and said, “Yes, that’s exactly what I do.  I always do that.”  (Well, he almost always does that.  He did right then, and that’s all that matters.)

He’d also brought a piece of mail from Publisher’s Central Sweepstakes.  I promptly launched into a story about him and his late wife Janice getting one of those when I was at their house, back when I was about nine years old.  He, entertaining his little sister, went all agog, scribbling his name and address on the paper so violently he kept breaking the lead in his pencil, wadding the page into the envelope, licking the envelope ’til there was no sticky left, taping it shut (round and round the whole envelope), getting the stamp lost in his mouth, and then throwing it on the floor and stamping on it with vigor.  I laughed until I cried and there was no more wind in my lungs.

So Loren left my house laughing over that, too; he did remember it.  Oh, and he handed me the envelope to throw away, so we took care of that, too.  Hopefully, the address change I instigated at the post office will bring most of those to my house now, rather than his.

I love salads, and don’t get them often enough to suit me, because I rarely go to the store, and thus rarely have fresh produce.  Wouldn’t it be fun to live in a little Italian village along the Mediterranean, where every day you could just go down the steps from the cottages to the lower levels where all the stands of fresh fruits, vegetables, meats, and breads are?

“Yes, fun,” answered a friend with whom I was chatting, “but think how far you’d be from church!”  😄

“Yeah,” I agreed, “and in Italy, 83% are Catholic (though only about half of those are practicing Catholics), 14% are atheist, 2% are Muslim, and 1% are Other.  I’d be a very square peg in a very round hole.”

Just for fun, I looked it up – and lo and behold, I found several Baptist churches in Italy, and even a couple of ‘Bible Baptist’ churches, as our own church is called.  They even have midweek services.  How ’bout that.



Walkers have been working steadily through all this pandemic upheaval – but lately, it’s been a little more difficult to find work.  Usually there is enough work that they can pick and choose.

It always works that way:  when people start having a hard time making money, and many are unemployed, the trouble eventually trickles down to the construction companies.  They’ve been considered ‘essential business’ – but what if there’s no business to be had?  To make matters worse, the price of lumber has jumped a good 40% upwards.  That will slow new construction, if nothing else does!

These pictures are from early 1985.  In preparation for new baby Joseph, we moved Teddy’s crib into Dorcas’ room, probably in February or March, since the baby was expected to arrive in late April.  We made a brand-new room for Hannah downstairs (as seen in the previous pictures).  Anticipating Hannah and Dorcas eventually sharing the room, and having plenty of space, we bought, along with matching dresser and bureau, a king-sized bed – a waterbed, which would keep her warm at night.







Hannah, 4, exclaiming over all this to her grandparents, spread her hands, palms up, and laughed, “I have the biggest bed in the house! – and I’m just a little girl.”

Larry and I had a king-sized waterbed, too; but Hannah was pretty sure hers was bigger.  It certainly looked bigger, with nobody but her in it!

Getting that beautiful set of furniture proved to be an excellent investment, as indeed Hannah and Dorcas did share it for quite a number of years, until a house fire burned it.  In an odd twist, Jeremy’s late mother Malinda totally refinished that bedroom set, and Jeremy himself used it until he and Lydia married in 2008.

I sewed matching canopies... quilts with ruffled sides... bumper pads... curtains... shams... and pillows.  Dorcas’ bed had a side rail that we lifted at night.  My late nephew David Walker made the drawers under the crib and the bed, and another set to go under Joseph’s crib.

A quilting friend, looking at these pictures, commented, “That’s a lot of fabric.  Even more than the puffy sleeves from the 80’s.  😉  Did you buy bolts of fabric?”

“I did,” I told her.  “And I had enough left over to later make matching dresses (with the obligatory big sleeves and ruffles, of course) for the girls and for me.  I have used it in quilts, more recently – and I still have a small amount (1/8 yard or less) of a couple of those prints in my stash! 😃 

Larry told the girls and me, “Just don’t walk into that room with those dresses on, or you’ll get lost, and the rest of us will never be able to find you!”

Jumping forward to June 16, 2001, here’s Victoria, age 5, hiking with Larry.  Larry has an airgun; Victoria has a ‘walking stick’.  Believe me, Larry was in far greater peril from Victoria’s walking stick than Victoria ever was from Larry’s airgun.





Saturday, Lydia sent pictures of their new St. Bernard puppy, Monty, along with several of the children, Jacob, Jonathan, Ian, and Malinda.



Last night after church I was holding Keira.  She’s 2 years and 4 months.  I asked her if she liked the song the choir had just sung.  She gave a couple of her characteristic quick little nods. 

“This song?” I questioned, and sang the last line or two very quietly in her ear:  “Surely He bore our sorrow, and by His stripes we are healed.”

She leaned back and looked into my face, beamed at me, and nodded vigorously.  She obviously knew that was exactly the right song!

Loren invited us to his house for a snack, first time he’s done that in a long time.  I think he was just so happy that he can already see better, he wanted to share his happiness.  We had toast with peanut butter and honey (well, I left off the peanut butter, since the scale said I was up half a pound that morning) and coffee.

So many people say to me, “Half a pound is nothing to worry about!”

Oh, yeah?  Well, what if I ceased to worry about it for a year, and gained half a pound every day?  By the end of the year, I’d weigh 178 pounds more than I do right now, that’s what!  And that would certainly be something to worry about.  It’s a whole lot easier to lose half a pound than it is to lose a hundred pounds – or even five pounds, for that matter.  It doesn’t take very many extra pounds at all before arthritic knees, hips, and ankles protest on the stairways.  So... I try to keep ze ol’ bones happy, that I do.

Today at noon it was only 66°, bright and sunny.  (And that extra half pound is gone, along with another half pound, besides.  All the better.)

Here are Keith and Hannah with new baby Joseph.  I could hardly wait to get out of the hospital with my new babies and get home to the other children.  They loved getting to see and talk to the new babies, and, if they were old enough, to hold the baby.





A friend, looking at some of these old photos, remarked, “Sunday mornings must’ve started very early for you so you could get all those girls looking so adorable!!”

“Yep!” I responded.  “Many was the time I had a nasty collision with myself scrambling out of bed just as I was a-gettin’ in!”

On my way from Loren’s house shortly after 4:00 this afternoon, I stopped at Big Apple Bagels to use a coupon, since this is the last day before it expires.  It’s a ‘buy 2 bagels, get 4 free’ coupon.  Pretty good deal, eh? 

I pulled up to the outdoor ordering mic, and the auto sensor informed me, “Our business is closed.  Please visit us again.  Our business is closed.  Please visit us again.  Our business is closed.  Please visit us again.  Our business is closed.  Please visit us again.  Our business is closed.  Please visit us again.”

All right, all right.  I heardja the foist time.

Home again, I looked it up online.  Google informs me, just like I thought, that they close at 5:00 p.m.  I clicked on their website – and there I see that they actually close at 3:00 p.m., on account of the coronavirus. 

Aarrgghh.  Are the virus spores more vigorous and potent after 3 p.m.?

’Cuz I know for a fact that people do eat bagels after 3 p.m.

’Tupid, ’tupid people.  Aggravating people!  Ah wanna bagel!  Ah wanna bagel!

I think my allergies, of which I have few, are acting up.  Weather.com says the pollen count is low here – but my eyes, nose, throat, and ears are itching, my nose is stuffy, and I keep sneezing.  It doesn’t feel like a cold; it feels like hay fever.  Plus, I can look right around the countryside near our house, and see weeds in bloom.

So... it occurred to me that it might be good to put Young Living Peppermint essential oil, which is supposed to be helpful with allergies, into my tea.  It’s Legend of China white tea, and I don’t like it.  I need two teabags per cup, just to be able to actually taste it, and then it’s not all that pleasant.  But it’s supposed to be good for me, and I hate to waste anything...

So I thought, Well, I like peppermint tea, now don’t I?  So why shouldn’t I put some drops of peppermint oil into this abominably bland tea?

I decided three drops would be about right.  I drip-dropped them into the steaming cup.  One... two... three.

I screwed the lid back on the little bottle and put it back where it belonged.

Coming back to the table, I picked up my mug, lifted it to my lips, and took a breath just before taking a sip.


Now that I’ve picked myself back up off the floor, collected my head from the corner of the room where it got blown to, and screwed it back on, I will try a sip without breathing it in first.

... trepidacious sip ...

Hmmm.  Well, it’s not as lethal as one would think, judging from that big whiff of it.  But if I keep that cup in front of my face very long at all, my eyes water, and I can’t keep from taking a breath – at which point my head flies off again.  Wow.  Potent stuff.

Maybe I should add water?

Next time, I should possibly merely touch my fingertip to the top of the peppermint oil bottle, and then swirl said finger around in the tea (providing said tea isn’t right at the boiling point).  That otter do it.

Wheweeee.  I might never have hay fever again in this lifetime.

Ooookay.  I’m done.  Down the sink it goes (I’ll wipe the sink out with it; it’ll smell good and make the stainless steel sink shiny), and now I’ll make myself a brand new pot of coffee.  Sans peppermint.

Pray for us, please, won’t you?  For Loren, that he can stay independent as long as possible, for we would be heartbroken if he had to go into assisted living while COVID-19 has those places shut down to visitors (which is extremely cruel and even life-threatening to the elderly), and for Larry and me, that we are able to help him as we should, and say the right things.  He might be confused about things, but he sure enough recognizes love, or the lack thereof, in the people around him.  We do love him, and we depend on God to help us do what we need to do at the right time, and to say the right words.  But this is not easy for us.

A customer’s quilt is slated to arrive Friday, and the photo-scanning will have to halt for a while.  The lady wants it custom-quilted.  I’m looking forward to this quilting job.  😊



,,,>^..^<,,,           Sarah Lynn           ,,,>^..^<,,,



Addendum:


Global Mask Craziness, an article from David Cloud

 

In Flint, Michigan, on May 1, at a Family Dollar store, a 43-year-old security guard, a family man, the father of six children, was shot dead after asking a customer to wear a mask (“Killed for Doing His Job,” The Sun, May 4, 2020).

In Staten Island, New York, on May 25, a mob of angry customers at a Shoprite grocery store cursed and berated a woman for not wearing a mask. One shamer removed his mask so he can yell louder (“Video shows mob berating woman,” Fox News, May 26, 2020).

In Gardena, California, on July 5, a security guard shot and killed a 50-year-old man at a supermarket because he wasn’t wearing a mask (“California security guard charged with murder,” Fox News, Jul. 9, 2020).

In Bayonne, France, in July 5, a 59-year-old bus driver, family man, father of three daughters, was beaten to death by a group of passengers who refused to comply with the mask rule (“French bus driver died,” Agence France-Presse, Jul. 11, 2020).

In Lansing, Michigan, on July 14, a man stabbed another man in a restaurant after being told he had to wear a mask. He fled the scene and was later shot to death by a policewoman after he approached her with a knife and would not put it down (“Suspect killed by Michigan deputy,” ABC News, Jul. 15, 2020).

In Minden, Ontario, on July 15, a man assaulted a grocery store employee after being told to wear a mask and was later shot to death after a confrontation with police in his home. One of the employees said later that they shouldn’t have to enforce government rules. “If we didn’t have to force him and tell him that he couldn’t come into the store, nothing would have happened, really. He would have got his groceries and went along with his day” (“OPP shoot man dead hours after mask dispute,” CBC.ca, Jul. 15, 2020).

In Lakeside, Colorado, on July 19, a woman shopping in a liquor store was cursed and attacked with a cart for not wearing a mask (“Mask Madness,” The Washington Times, Jul. 20, 2020).

In Albuquerque, New Mexico, on July 21, a man who was told that he had to wear a mask to have his automobile serviced ran over the shop owner’s son (“New Mexico deputies,” Associated Press, Aug. 24, 2020).

In Gainesville, Georgia, on about July 23, a woman shopping in a Walmart with her two young children was severely berated by another customer for not wearing masks. The mask shamer said, “I hope you all die” and walked off. Walmart policy does not require young children to wear masks (“Store Mask Bully,” Western Journal, July 29, 2020).

In San Diego, California, on July 23, a woman pepper sprayed a man who wasn’t wearing a mask. He and his wife were sitting outside alone, social distancing and eating a snack. The woman sprayed the entire container into the poor man’s face (“Man allegedly pepper-sprayed for not wearing facial covering,” ABC10 News San Diego, Jul. 24, 2020).

In Hackensack, New Jersey, on July 29, in a Staples store, a 54-year-old woman who had recently undergone a liver transplant and was walking with a cane, demanded that another customer wear a mask and was subsequently shoved to the floor and suffered a broken leg (“Woman Shoved to the Ground,” NBC4 New York, Jul. 31, 2020).

In Manhattan Beach, California on July 31, a woman berated a man for not wearing a mask (even though he was sitting outside and eating at the time), then threw hot coffee on him. The victim subsequently beat up the crazed woman’s husband (“California Couple Throws Coffee,” International Business Times, Aug. 1, 2020).

In Wisconsin, on July 31, the head of the Department of Natural Resources, instructed his employees that they must wear masks even while video conferencing from their homes (“Employees need masks,” The Kansas City Star, Aug. 10, 2020).

On August 10, a woman and her two children were removed from a Southwest Airlines flight because her three-year-old autistic son would not wear a mask. She had a note from the boy’s doctor about his special condition, but Southwest apparently does not allow medical exemptions (“Family removed,” USA Today, Aug. 11, 2020).

On August 19, a mother and her six children were removed from a JetBlue Airways flight after her two-year-old daughter kept pulling off her mask. The other passengers were loudly protesting the airline’s decision, saying, ‘That’s not fair; don’t do that to that mother,” to no avail. Another mother was kicked off the same flight with her young son for sticking up for the first mother (“Mom traveling with 6 kids kicked off,” ABC News, Aug. 21, 2020).

Former Navy Seal Robert O’Neill, one of the nation’s brave heroes who participated in the raid that killed mass murderer Osama Bin Laden, was banned from flying on Delta on August 20 after he tweeted a selfie of himself not wearing a mask on a Delta flight, calling masks “dumb.” Even though he was eating and drinking at the time and airline policy does not require wearing a mask for such an activity, he was perhaps targeted for his jocular attitude against masking.

 

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Meanwhile, 39 kidnapped and exploited children have been found in a double-wide trailer in Georgia.  At least 4 police officers have been shot in the last 3 or 4 days.  Thirty-two officers have been reported feloniously killed so far in 2020.  Where’s the news reporting, over and over and over, about these things??? 

Speaking of the dishonesty of the media, they scream and shriek without letup about deaths from COVID-19 ... but did you know that there are around 900,000 unborn babies slaughtered each year in the United States alone? – and maybe many more, because clinics don’t have to report it.   That’s over 2,500 a day.  

But the world has gone crazy over COVID-19.  There have been 184,000 deaths of COV in our country this year – but the numbers of deaths from heart disease, cancer, and other deaths that always top the list are way, way down.  What does that tell you?   

Just this:  they are counting deaths ‘from COVID-19’ that are not truly ‘from COVID-19’.  A (very quiet) recent report from the CDC said that only 9-10,000 of that 184,000 number have actually died ONLY of COV.  The United States matches that in 4 days alone, with abortions.  Just think if we added in statistics from the whole world! 

Horrible, horrible.  Are we not able to look around and have any inkling that the Lord of All Creation is angry?!  One quick look at the Bible gives many references to what God did when people, whether Jew or Gentile, shed innocent blood.  God avenged that innocent blood, sooner or later.  Even secular history proves that fact.  And people call it ‘coincidence’.  They know better. 

Today we are hearing on the news that the prisons in Douglas County (Nebraska’s largest county by population – 571,000) (our county, Platte, has a population of 33,470) have been quarantined, because 29 individuals (some in each of their 4 prison houses) have tested positive for COVID-19.  The rural conservative radio station to which I listen also gives this information:  most – in fact, almost all – of those who tested positive have had no symptoms of the virus at all. 

Never before in history have we torn the world down over a virus that has such a low fatality rate – reportedly anywhere from 0.04% to 1%.  Those who give higher percentage rates are counting deaths that occurred with COVID-19; not deaths that occurred entirely from COVID-19.  There’s a huge difference.  And it’s mainly a matter of honesty with the officials.  Honesty is seriously lacking with the ‘officials’.




 


Thursday, August 27, 2020

Old Photos: Cat Joins Photo Shoot

Scanning old photos...
Early April, 1985. I started up a photo shoot -- and Calico Kitty decided she needed to be in the pictures, too.
Hannah, 4; Keith, 5; Larry, 24; Teddy, 1 1/2; Dorcas, 2 1/2

I always think it's funny to watch the sequence of facial expressions from one shot to the next.









Monday, August 24, 2020

Journal: Doctors and Eyedrops and Old Photos

Note to self:  Never, ever again buy coffee with ‘Chipotle’ in the flavor description.

Chipotle is smoke-dried ripe jalapeño chili peppers.  I do not like smoke-dried ripe jalapeño chili peppers seasoning my coffee.  😜😝😛😕😖🤪😵😡🤢👿

WHY DID SOMEONE THINK THAT STUFF BELONGED IN MY COFFEE??????!!!!

{... time lapse ...}

Okay, I’ve discovered I can allllmost bear Christopher Bean’s Chipotle Almond Brittle coffee if I pour in copious amounts of French Vanilla coffee creamer (sugar-free, of course; I gotta be healthy, heh) and chew Spearmint Rain 5 gum whilst I’m a-drinkin’ it.

Bleah.  I went all agog over ‘Almond Brittle’, and totally neglected to think, Chipotle = smoke-dried ripe jalapeño chili peppers.  Why anyone should think smoke-dried jalapeños belong in their coffee is beyond me. 

Thinking to console myself, I texted Larry:  Want to bring home taco salad and nachos from Amigos?  We could split them each.” 

Yeah, that was badly worded.  Larry does not let this go.

“Each little piece?!” he responds.

So I reply, “Yes, we have to be fair.  And remember, NO CHIPOTLE!”

Sounds good to me,” he answers.

And then, regarding chipotle, “Isn’t variety the spice of life?”

“No!” I retort, “The Spice of Life can kill you!”

You know, there’s somethin’ to be said for plain ol’ well water.

Tuesday was Jeremy and Lydia’s twelfth anniversary.  Wednesday night after church, we gave them a basket with various food items – including the bag of Chipotle Almond Brittle coffee beans.  I even poured the coffee I had already ground into a Ziploc baggie and stuck it into the bag.

Handing Jeremy the basket, I pointed out the coffee.  “I gave you that coffee...” (I gave him a sideways look) “...because I didn’t like it.” 

As I knew they would, Jeremy and Lydia both laughed. 

“Give it back and we’ll give you something to replace it, if you don’t like it,” Larry told them.

They haven’t given it back.

Yet.

In my scanning of old photos, I found another of my prebridal pictures.  I hadn’t seen it for so long, I’d forgotten all about it.


I like to listen to audio books or the Bible while I scan pictures or sew.  While I’m quilting with my Avanté, I usually listen to music, since the machine is loud enough that I miss sections of audio books – but it doesn’t matter so much if I miss a line or two in a song.

But my favorite thing to do is throw open the windows, when the weather is nice, and just listen to all the birds or, after dark, the night insects and owls.  There is rarely the sound of a vehicle.  Once in a while I’ll hear the rumble of a tractor.  And sometimes, late at night, I hear red foxes, coyotes, raccoons, and even mockingbirds.  I had never known before moving out here to the country that, from springtime to early summer, mockingbirds will sing their beautiful and varied mating songs from the time the sun is setting until 3 or 4 o’clock in the morning.

Here’s Hannah, age 4, and Calico Kitty, who would've been almost 6, having been born on our wedding day.  We got her six weeks later.  She lived to be 14, and always particularly liked Hannah, of all the children.  She knew when Hannah was sick, and would cuddle up next to her. 


And here’s Teddy, 1 ½, silly little boy, having just learned to curl his tongue.  Both pictures were taken in early 1985.


Having finally gotten the check from Norma’s life insurance company, I took it to the funeral home Wednesday.  Now we’ll be able to get the headstone made and put in place.

I took Loren to his doctor in David City Thursday morning to have a checkup to determine if he’s healthy enough to have the cataracts removed.  Cataract surgery is slated for August 26 – this coming Wednesday – and September 2, the Wednesday a week later.

He’s very much healthy enough.  Blood pressure:  120/70.  Oxygen level:  99%.  Weight:  164.

I’d made a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for him to eat on the way, and he was glad, because he hadn’t eaten anything yet.

The doctor gave Loren his sympathies over the loss of Norma, and Loren was quite puzzled over just exactly who he was talking about.

The doctor looked at me.  I looked back, and gave my head a little shake when Loren wasn’t looking – which I hope the doctor interpreted as, “No, he’s not keeping things straight,” rather than “No, don’t ask him that stuff!”  (I didn’t think of the possible misinterpretation until it was too late... but he seemed to understand.)

This is Hannah’s 10th-grade picture, one of my favorite pictures of her.


This picture of Caleb, Hester, and Lydia brings back the following memory:


We were in Dillon, Colorado, one winter, and a snowstorm was coming.  I told Caleb, who was 3, that if it snowed overnight, we’d go to a nearby clothing store in that pretty mountain town and buy him some new boots, since we didn't have any that fit him.  (Well, there were some, but they were pink or purple, with hearts and butterflies and unicorns on them.)

Bright and early the next morning, before the rest of us hardly had our eyes open, he jumped out of bed, rushed over to the window, pulled back the curtain, peered out... and then he yelled in great elation, “I’M GETTING NEW BOOTS!!!  I’M GETTING NEW BOOTS!!!”

I hastily hushed him up (other people in the motel were doubtless still trying to sleep) and went to the window.  Sure enough, there was about a foot of snow on the ground.

We went to a nearby Wal-Mart and got him some adorable little red, white, and black boots with Dalmatians on them.  He loved those boots.  As soon as we put them on him, along with his coat, scarf, and mittens, and went outside, he dashed into the snow, found a drift almost as tall as he was, and jumped and jumped and jumped in it.  He promptly fell flat, and was laughing so hard, Hester had to help him up.

He loved Dalmatians from that day on.

A friend, having read my description of chipotle-flavored coffee, told us about the Blueberry/French Vanilla coffee he likes to get at Dunkin Donuts.

That sounded scrumptious.  I had to have some; so I ordered Blueberry Cobbler by New England Coffees (I already know I like New England coffees) and French Vanilla by Dunkin Donuts to mix with it.  {...droooool...}  Arrival date:  Saturday.

That same friend then informed us that he likes coffee after it has sat in a pot on a burner for half a day.  The employees at his local Waffle House know this, and save their oldest pot of coffee for him.

“Bleah, old pots of coffee?” I exclaimed.  “I turn mine off as soon as it’s done, and sometimes pour it into a thermos, because I can’t stand that ‘burnt-coffee’ flavor.”  

Here are Hester and Lydia in the red fleece coats, fur muffs, and hats with black velvet trim that I made for them.  It was November 25, 1996, so they were ages 7 and 5, respectively.  They loved those coats and hats – but they loved the muffs best of all.  



Later, Victoria would wear them. 

Hester said it wasn’t fair at all, because Lydia and Victoria got to wear both coats, and she only got to wear one.  😂

We were once traveling in Yellowstone National Park in late October, and we finally found a store open where we could fill our coffee mugs and thermoses. 

The aroma stench should’ve warned us.

I tell you, that stuff must’ve been on the burner since the college kids left the Park and headed back to school in mid-August.  Accckkk.  Somebody hand me a fork!

This reminded me of another time a few years ago (everything reminds me of another time, ever notice that?) when I trotted into the kitchen to warm up my coffee in the microwave – and forgot that, the day before, Victoria had been ‘making candles’.  She’d poured mulberry-scented wax into a lid, along with a fat string...  then she made ‘designs’ all over the top ... then she decided that that didn’t look nice, so she melted it again – by putting it into the microwave – on high – for three minutes.

It melted, all right.  It boiledIt splattered mulberry wax high and low.  The whole microwave reeked of mulberry.  And so did my coffee.  😜  I set her to cleaning the microwave.  Soon the wax itself was gone, but the microwave smelt mighty good, and everything we warmed up in there came out tasting vaguely perfumed of berry.  There were bright mulberry splotches all over the walls, ceiling, and floor of that microwave ’til the day it died. 

But the day wasn’t over yet.

Later, I made a new pot of coffee.  A few minutes later, tastebuds all polished up, I came to get a nice fresh mug of coffee.

Pulling the pot from the coffeemaker, I poured – not noticing that there on the spout was a heap of pumpkin pie spice.

Eh?  You’ve never had a heap of pumpkin pie spice mysteriously materialize on your coffeepot spout?

Well, then, you’ve evidently never had a spice cupboard directly over your coffeemaker, nor yet a teenage Caleb rummaging through that same cupboard.  He’d knocked out the bottle of pumpkin pie spice.  And the person who had last used said spice had neglected to screw the lid on tight.  The lid popped off… the spice spilt… and, though Caleb cleaned up what landed on the counter, he did not notice the pile of spice on the coffeepot spout.

Now, I like flavored coffee – hazelnut crème, French vanilla, Irish caramel, blueberry cobbler, . . .  but!! --- I do not much care for mulberry-candlewax flavored coffee, nor yet pumpkin-pie-spice flavored coffee --- especially a whole tablespoon in one small mug of coffee.

Two ruint mugs of coffee in one day is almost too much to bear.

Here are Joseph, 11, and Dorcas, 13, on Thanksgiving Day, November 28, 1996.  Dorcas’ outfit – skirt, blouse, and vest – is a Gunne Sax pattern.



Back to the Topic of Coffee:

Caleb was about five years old (a year older than he was in this picture), and he decided to be Mama’s Little Helper and warm up my coffee for me.  It was in a tall plastic thermal mug with a lid, nearly full, and it was lukewarm.  Almost cold. 


“How much shall I warm it up?” he queried.

“Oh, about 70 seconds,” I told him.

He put it into the microwave and hit the buttons.

He hit the zero one too many times.

At the five-minute mark, the lid blew off. 

BLAAAANG!!!

“Wow!” said Caleb, who’d been peering patiently into the microwave window.

“What happened?!” I asked, having forgotten by now what he’d been doing.

“Oh, the lid just blew off,” he told me nonchalantly, still watching the now lidless (and nearly coffeeless) mug revolving inside the microwave.

Yeah, we made fresh coffee.  And cleaned out the microwave.

The Schwan lady was supposed to come any time between 10:00 a.m. and 1:00 p.m. Friday.  She didn’t come, and I got no notification giving a reason.  That company is going to fold, just see if it doesn’t.

That afternoon, Loren’s supper consisted of ancient-grain-encrusted cod, green beans, a biscuit, peach jello, raspberry tea, and Farmer’s cheese.  I returned the laundry I’d washed for him, and he once again worried over whether or not he was giving me too much to do.  I assured him that one or two more loads of laundry were practically no trouble at all.

Here’s Caleb at age 3 in a cute little sailor sweater Hannah crocheted for him to wear to our Thanksgiving dinner at church.


Once upon a time my late sister-in-law Janice, 17 years older than me, taught me how to crochet a granny square.  I was 8, and it was raining outside, and I needed something to do. And then the sun came out — and it’s been shining ever since.  

Look, Hester found a nice, comfortable pillow on which to take a nap.  Neither the funnies nor the Moving Day book could keep father and daughter awake, it seems.


Larry got off work at 9:30 a.m. Saturday morning.  He was working on something in the garage at about 10:30 when Loren came along, needing some help with an irrigation pipe that had come apart.  Larry followed Loren to his house on his motorcycle, fixed the pipe, and then had some coffee and visited with him before coming home again.  Loren gets lonely sometimes.

After taking Teddy a mower, Larry went to Genoa to work on vehicles – his friend Joe’s and his own.

That evening, Teddy sent pictures of a tall thundercloud in the western sky at sunset, so I had to pop outside and take a picture, myself.


As I was scanning my old photos the last few days, I found a few of my mother when she was my age.  I thought, I look enough like Mama, I wonder how long it will be before Loren gets me confused with her. 

Two days.

Two days after the thought occurred to me, anyway.

He told me something that Mama had supposedly said to him recently.

“It wasn’t Mama,” I said, “because she passed away in 2003.”

“Oh, that’s right!” he answered. 

So then he was stumped, and finally decided I must have told him that.  “Did you say it?”

It was kinda sorta close to something I maybe might’ve possibly said, so I agreed.  I’m very agreeable.

This all makes me sad; but... maybe my resemblance to Mama will keep him ‘knowing’ me longer than he otherwise would.

I like Cream of Rice.  However, it has been impossible to find it (at least online) for a good long while now, unless I wanted to pay $50 for a small box of the stuff.

But finally this week, Amazon had some for less than two dollars a box – providing one bought an entire carton of 12 boxes.  I bought it.  I would’ve had it for breakfast by now, but the neighbor man brought us another bag of garden produce, so I’ve been having peanut butter and tomatoes on toast for breakfast.

I like regular rice, too.  I like it in Mexican dishes... Chinese dishes... American dishes... and plain, with gobs of butter, and sprinkled with brown sugar.

Sunday morning, I opened the new bags of New England’s Blueberry Cobbler coffee and Dunkin Donuts’ French Vanilla coffee that had arrived Saturday, put a half-and-half concoction in the filter basket, and turned on the coffee maker.

A couple of minutes later, I poured a cupful.

SSSLLLLUUUPPP

Mmmmm.  Yep, it’s good, mixed together.

Yesterday I uploaded a few pictures of the kids, mostly, dressed in clothes I’ve sewn through the years.  If you’d like to look:  Clothes from Yesteryear  Keep clicking ‘Older Posts’ at the bottom to see all seven posts.

I now have about 14 ¼ large albums scanned.  That’s the tip of the iceberg.  I’m going to be soooo happy, one of these days, when I can hand each of the children one of those flash drives that has multiple types of connections, with each drive containing every picture I’ve taken up to that very date, along with a whole raft of ancestral photos, too.

My brother once remarked, years ago, concerning projects I start, “You’re part bulldog!  You get hold of a bone, and you just won’t let go!”  haha 

Yeah, I hate to start any new project before finishing the one I’m working on right now, even if it’s hard and troublesome and taking fo’evah (as one of our little grandsons used to say).  That trait has its advantages – and its drawbacks. 

See the pin on Hannah’s jumper?  It’s a tiny silver teapot on a stick pin, with a little chain hanging down and connecting to a tiny teacup at the other end.  If the pin was angled just so, the chain would then look like a pouring stream of coffee.  Hmmm... I should get that pin and take a close-up of it.


<< ... heading to my jewelry box ... >>

Here it is:


The pin is from Avon; I got it when I sold Avon before Keith was born.  That was 41 years ago.

I’d totally forgotten until I started scanning all these old pictures how I used to put some of my jewelry – necklaces or pins – on the girls when I was getting them all dressed up to go somewhere.  A couple of the girls, upon seeing some of these photos in the last few days, have commented on how much they enjoyed wearing my jewelry.

My late sister-in-law Janice made the china doll for Hannah.  Can you tell she’s concentrating on being very, very careful with it?


In the picture below, Hannah’s vest and skirt were made from a sweater of Larry’s that he had grown out of.   The first day I put it on her, she could hardly wait for Larry to get home, so she could go running (giggling all the way) and inform him, “Daddy!  I’m wearing your sweater!”

Teddy’s pants were made from an old skirt of mine.


In the next picture, my dress (I’m on the right, next to the bride, Martha) and the other bridesmaid’s dress were made from a Gunne Sax pattern.  They were of the stretchiest single knits we had ever worked with, and it took an act of congress to get the hems straight.  As you can see, the other bridesmaid’s skirt stretched after she was done with it, and wound up dragging the floor.  And it had been so perfect!


But let me tell you what happened on the wedding night, after the sermon:

My father finished preaching, prayed, and then said, “Will the wedding party take their places.”

The bride and her attendants arose, as did the groom and his groomsmen.  We stepped forward to the altar, and the wedding ceremony commenced.

And then Martha and Carey Gene were husband and wife, and it was time to step back to the pew and then file out while the congregation sang the closing hymn.  The newly married couple would go first, followed by Larry and me, then the other bridesmaid and groomsman, the candlelighters next, and finally the ringbearer and flowergirl (my nephew and niece, Robert and Susan).  Since the pew was only a few steps back, we did not turn around; we just backed up.

Problem:

Sitting in that strrrretchy single knit dress through the service had stretched the back of the skirt, and it was no longer half an inch above the floor.

I stepped on the hem.

This pulled me backwards a little, so I automatically stepped back quickly with the other foot to catch myself.

That foot wound up even farther up the hem, jerking me back all the more.

By now, I was leaning backwards at a precarious angle, as I effectively walked up the inside of the back of the skirt.

The outcome would have been nothing less than ignominious, if the backs of my legs had not suddenly ka-bonked into the pew, which brought me up short and prevented me from landing flat on my back in front of the entire congregation.

I did not willingly wear a floor-length thneed (à la Dr. Seuss’ The Lorax) ever again.

Last night Hannah sent me a video clip of a lion cub just learning to roar.  I clicked ‘Play’ – and awoke Teensy from a sound sleep.  He stared around in some trepidation before realizing it was merely my computer, at which point he hopped up on my lap and demanded an apology.

If I ever fooled Socks with computer noises, he’d go sit down in the far corner of the room with his back to me and not deign to look at me for the next half hour.

Saturday, I looked out the window at the profusion of white hostas blooming, and thought, Soon, the hummingbirds will be coming back through.  They love those blossoms.

And just like that, I caught a glimpse of one whizzing past the window.  I held very still... watched... and he came zooming back, pausing to hover in front of the hummingbird feeder.

No! I thought, The stuff in there has long fermented!

I scurried out to get it, then quickly started more sugar water boiling while I washed the feeder.  The hummers would have to make do with blossoms while the water cooled.

A little over an hour later, I poured it into the feeder and rehung it.

Early this afternoon, I spotted a ruby-throated hummingbird perched on the feeder, sipping away.


Last night after church, we stopped at the Dairy Queen on our way to Schuyler for E-85 gas for Jeep.  It’s only $1.55 a gallon at the Co-Op there.  I got a turkey BLT and a small New York Berry Cheesecake Blizzard.  They overfilled it, and it was running down the sides when they handed it to me.  I wiped it off and wrapped it in a napkin, but I still wound up with a couple of drips on both the skirt and jacket sleeve of my dry-clean-only suit.  Larry got chicken strips and a medium New York Berry Cheesecake Blizzard and a large iced tea.

These pictures of Hester and Lydia were taken at David and Christine’s house on Christmas Eve, 1996, where we were exchanging gifts with my side of the family.  Lura Kay and John H. gave them the dolls.



When I called Loren at 3:00 this afternoon, as usual, I asked again about his eyedrops, and told him that Eye Physicians said the box had been delivered August 10th.

After telling me last Thursday he’d never gotten them, today he said yes, they had come, on that very day (not that he can tell one date from another), and he’d been taking them ever since.  (He was only supposed to use them for the three days prior to surgery.)

When I got to his house with his food at 4:00, I looked for the eyedrops, but couldn’t find them.  He showed me the box – “Here it is!  I’ve been using it twice a day just like they told me to.”

It was a Flovent inhaler.

“That’s what they brought me!” he insisted.

I looked at the date:  2001. 

“It couldn’t have been this!” I exclaimed, feeling rather alarmed.  “This was prescribed in 2001.  You shouldn’t be taking this stuff!  Flovent is what my children use for asthma.  It can be bad for your heart.  It’s old.”

He laughed, “Yes, my heart is old!”

Aiiiyiiiyiiieee.  I stuck it in the lunchbox I’d brought the food in, and said I was taking it with me to discard of; it’s no good anymore.

Then we looked all over the house for any eyedrops.  He showed me several Equate lubricant eyedrops.  Nope, those won’t do.

Sooo... I took his checkbook with me and went to Eye Physicians, got some eyedrops – $52! – and took them back to him.  The first eyedrops were included in the surgery costs.  These had to be paid for out of pocket.

He put a drop in each eye (I didn’t get him told in time that he only needed it in one eye), and it burned his eyes quite badly, and made them all red.  At least the burning stopped fairly quickly.  I hope he’s not allergic to those drops.  If there’s still a problem with them tomorrow, I’ll call the doctor’s office.  I tried today, but they had already closed.

After leaving Loren’s house, I went to the cleaners to drop off Larry’s black suit and my unfortunate aqua suit.  I stopped at the Goodwill to donate a few things before heading home again.

Here I am at 18 months.


Shortly after my second birthday, I had pneumonia.  My parents knew I had a bad cold – and then one evening, I fainted – and didn’t regain consciousness for a while.  Nowadays, it would probably be called it a seizure, brought on by a fever.  They called an ambulance... and I later woke up in the hospital in an oxygen tent. 

The tent was plastic.  My mother had thoroughly taught me of the dangers of plastic over one’s head.  I thought I was suffocating because of the plastic, though of course it was the pneumonia causing that feeling.  I saw an opening, reached for it – and discovered that the zipper pull was on the outside of the tent!

I never made a peep... but my sister walked in shortly, saw that my eyes were as big as saucers, and rushed to comfort me.

But I didn’t get over that awful feeling for a long time.  Maybe never!  I am more claustrophobic than most people know, since I keep quiet about it, and if I have to do things in tight quarters, I just do it. 

During one of those days when I was in the hospital, John H. and Lura Kay brought me a little doll, along with a small toy bathtub.  The tub had a shower head on it, and it worked like a siphon – you filled the tub, sucked water through the shower head to get it started, and there it was then, showering away.  It even came with a tiny washcloth and an itty, bitty bar of real, honest-to-goodness soap.  I was enthralled.

The next evening, they came again to visit.  John H. picked up a glass of water on a tray and poured it into the little tub, then started it spraying.

Problem:  it wasn’t water.

It was 7-Up.

The stuff started fizzing and bubbling, and soon overflowed the tub.

John H. was exclaiming and frantically trying to wipe up the overflow. 

I laughed and laughed, all the while thinking how funny I sounded, because I was so hoarse my voice was all croaky, and every time I took in a big breath, my lungs wheezed and whistled.

Here’s Keith at about ten months.  He’d just begun standing in his crib, and this was the cheery little face that greeted me each morning when I went to get him.


And here’s Victoria at ten months, with Hannah holding her.  Our oldest – Keith – and our youngest – Victoria.  I had not before noticed how much they looked alike as babies.


I just found this story in an old journal:

One time when Lydia was about a year and a half, just at the age where she particularly enjoyed such toys as Fisher Price’s Fit the Shapes Into the Holes Ball, she was playing in the living room while her father slept, sprawled out on the carpet nearby.  She sat down beside him and looked at his face contemplatively.  His mouth was open in a perfect O, and he breathed steadily in and out in a soft snore.  Lydia stared at his face.  She turned her head and looked at her little Shape-Finder Bench.  She glanced quickly back at Larry, and then her gaze returned to the Shape-Finder.

Then, quick as a wink, she snatched up a small plastic cone-shaped piece, whirled around, and dropped it ker-plop right into Larry’s mouth.  It was a perfect fit.

GAAAAAAAAAAAACCCKKKKK!!!!!” said Larry, abruptly sitting bolt upright and spewing Fisher Price shapes like a professional tobacky spitter.  “Pa-TOOOOOOOey!!!!” he added, just for good measure.

Lydia gazed at him impassively.  Then, as her father got his wits about him once again, she asked sympathetically in her sweet, low-pitched voice, “You choke, Daddy?”

Moral of the story:  Never lie anywhere near ground level and impersonate a Fisher Price Shape-Sorter while sleeping, if there are toddlers anywhere on the premises.  Not without wearing a face guard, that is.

This is Teddy at age one.


Back to the photo-scanning!

 


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