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Monday, November 14, 2022

Journal: Christmas Preparations, & Visiting My Brother

 


Late last Monday night, I heard a pack of coyotes, adults and pups alike, out in the front yard, yipping and yapping their heads off.  I couldn’t find a flashlight to save my life (somebuddy lost the charger for my really, really bright light, and it wasn’t me).  When I finally found one, it was not much better than a candle in a strong wind, and the coyotes were long gone.

There were several unique voices; I wonder how many coyotes were in that pack?  Here’s a picture from A-Z Animals.

We’ve been looking for the charger for that very bright flashlight (the one with which I once accidentally signaled a foreign planet, and it wasn’t even in our own galaxy) for a couple of months now.  Last night, Larry suddenly spotted it, plugged into a power strip under an end table in the living room.  My light is now fully charged again, and I have reinstated my ROPUMF (Restrictions on Other People Using My Flashlight).  (I wonder if I’ll have any better luck with that than I did the first time?)

Strong thunderstorms rolled in Tuesday morning, with thunder crashing and booming like anything.  So there was no looking at the lunar eclipse.  Electricity went off momentarily.  It rained enough to ease the drought a little in our area of the world.

I was gathering up some old cards and notes from the children and grandchildren, and taking pictures of some so that I might clear out a stack of them without regrets.  A small child’s drawing of people reminded me of a time when Victoria, at about age 3, was sitting at the table beside me drawing a picture.  She made a few lines, then frowned down at her paper. 

“I start to make a girl,” she said, tipping her head consideringly, “but it always turns out being a straight line with a circle on top.”  hee hee



I headed downstairs to my gift-wrapping room to wrap and bag more presents.  Several of the boys are old enough for pocketknives now, and I have a whole raft of them from Loren’s house.  Some are used and well-used, but there are plenty of nice ones and even a few new ones to choose from, and plenty to save for when the younger boys are old enough for knives.  I shined them up with a soft cloth, wrapped them in tissue paper, and tucked them into the giftbags.

This Winchester knife is for Aaron, and comes in its own soft zippered case.



There are several nice watches and miniature clocks that look like new, but they need batteries.  Larry helped me open them, and then I ordered the correct size of batteries from Amazon.

Here’s an example of gifts for one of the children.  Let’s choose... Jacob, Jeremy and Lydia’s oldest.  Jacob is 13.  He gets a blue and beige striped Basic Editions knit shirt, a miniature hand-crafted leather saddle, and a Journey’s Edge Swiss pocketknife that even has a teeny, tiny flashlight on it.  It’s in a black canvas case, and has never been used.  The little plastic thing that prevents the battery from making contact has never been removed, and the blades are shiny, still with a dab of oil on them from the manufacturer.




 

There’s also a silver and gold hand-engraved belt buckle from Mexico, a pressed penny from Bass Pro Shops (I found five of those, and divided them between several of the boys), and a pair of hand-carved wooden giraffes – a cow and a calf.  Because I like to give ‘sets’, I hunted for a book about giraffes on Amazon.  The book arrived today, and I was more than pleased to discover it was a whole lot bigger than I’d expected, coffee-table-size, and, though it’s used, it looks like new, just as advertised.







Everything but the shirt and the book came from Loren’s house.  Because of things like this that I saved from Loren’s house, Christmas won’t be nearly as expensive as usual this year.  The children and grandchildren will be pleased with their gifts – and Loren, if he understood, would be happy to know everything is going to a good cause. 

In fact, when we were visiting him Saturday and I told him I’d been busy wrapping and bagging gifts for the grandchildren, he immediately asked, “Can I give you some money, so you can get something for each of them from me?” 

I assured him that he didn’t at all need to do that; no one expects it of him.  He smiled and nodded, satisfied with my answer.  I didn’t elaborate.  He doesn’t need to know about things that might make him worry, such as his house and vehicles being sold.  The money is paying for his stay in the nursing home, as long as he stays there.

I finally took Teddy up on his offer of the meat (from butchering his pigs) that he has stored in our downstairs freezer.  He often tells me to use what I want, but he won’t take any money for it!  That kid.  Last time he was here, he brought up some ground pork and put it in the refrigerator.  Well, Tuesday afternoon I helped myself to a couple of pork chops and a pork roast.  I put the chops in the oven with small yellow baby potatoes, carrots, and a purple onion.  The roast went into the refrigerator to thaw for Thursday’s meal.

And I am keeping track of what meat I use, so I can make it up to Teddy, one way or a-tuther!  😊

With the oven doing its job and another load of clothes in the washing machine, I went back to wrapping gifts.  I’m trying my very best to give the grandchildren things of equal value, and also a fairly equal quantity. 

Here’s a 1:18-scale powder blue 1967 Volkswagen Beetle on a display stand, and I even found its original box.  It has an opening hood, trunk, and doors, an accurate model engine, and a steering wheel that turns the wheels.  This, I decided, would go to Lyle, Teddy and Amy’s third child.  He’s 15.



Since I have about enough things for the older boys, I think I will save the working watches (there are 5 or 6) for their birthdays.

I was surprised, the last time I was at the nursing home, when I mentioned that it would be time for dinner soon, and Loren pulled back his cuff, looked at his watch, and said, “Oh, yes, it will – it’s 4:55!  Five more minutes.” 

The last couple of months when he was still at home, he started wearing a watch on each wrist, and he was constantly resetting the time to any ol’ thing.  He’d look at one wristwatch, then the other; and when the time didn’t match, he’d try to reset one to match the other (and it was anybody’s guess which one he’d decide was right at the moment).  But that day, he had only one watch on, and it was set right, and he read it right, and knew when dinner would be served.

It’s so odd, how understanding comes and goes with Lewy Body dementia.

Wednesday, I went on sorting and bagging gifts – and wondering what gremlins kept making off with name tags immediately after I’d written them.

Lydia had two dental implants screwed in that day, and was in pain from it.  One implant was put in where she had a tooth pulled in August; the other was inserted in the back where she’d had a tooth pulled a couple of years ago.  She had to have a lot more lidocaine than the dentist started out with, and then she had a bad reaction to it – and to make matters worse, the doctor nicked a vein.  Eeek, that’s too scary for comfort.

It was 68° that morning at about 11:00 a.m.  Then the wind picked up, and it got a little cooler in the afternoon; but by the time we left for church that evening, it was 72°.  It stayed in the mid to high 60s all night, and was around 68° at sunup – quite unusual for early November in Nebraska.  But by midmorning Thursday, a fast-traveling cold front had moved in, and the temperature dropped over 30° in less than half an hour.  By 12:30 p.m., it was 37°.

Victoria sent pictures she had taken of Willie that morning.  She wrote, “Our sweet boy is nine months old!  The last few days, he’s been waving (at himself, of course), clapping (and saying ‘clap clap’), growling ferociously, saying ‘Mama’, and getting closer to learning to crawl.  He’s over 20 pounds now.  He loves playing with empty bottles, his shoes, and looking at books.  He still only has his two bottom teeth!”




He’s such a sweetie.  This picture makes me laugh, because he’s got his little sock all mussed up from playing with his footie in the first few pictures.

A lady on my online quilting group told a story about her neighbor lady, who, upon noticing a stray cat around her house that was obviously too thin, set out food for the kitty, and put a soft cat bed on her porch.

The next day she was pleased to find the food gone – and the kitty making use of the bed, right that moment.  She quietly stepped closer and knelt down to pet the cat – but it wasn’t a cat; it was an opossum!  (The cat was sleeping on the porch, too – but in a box of wood shavings.  😂)

One day back in 2012, Larry trotted out the garage door, headed down the steps – and a skunk came waddling out from under those same steps.  Larry does not take slights to his personage lightly—and he does indeed consider it a slight to his personage when a polecat has the audacity to be occupying the garage at the same time he wishes to occupy it.

He yelled and began backing back up the steps, not wishing to turn his back on the black-and-white-striped kitty, although one would think it would be preferable to have one’s back doused with polecat perfume than one’s front.

The skunk, alarmed over the commotion in general and the nearness of the commotioner in particular, raised its tail, which in turn caused the commotioner to generate more commotion than ever.



Yelling and hollering, he did his bestest to get back up the steps without turning around – quite a feat, considering that neither risers nor treads on those steps are at all uniform.  (We leave them like that on purpose to foil burglars.)  (And would-be skunk escapees.)  (And wives with three bags of groceries in each hand.)  (The latter partially explains why certain members of the household thought this saga so funny.)

Once back at the top of the steps, he had to perform the get-around-the-opening-screen-door stunt while balancing on one narrow tread, and with his back to the door the entire time.  But he got ’er done.  Further, he escaped into the house without getting perfumed.  That was the amazing part of the whole escapade.  Once inside, he had to make his way through a small throng of irreverent children who were nearly bent double in hilarity at their father, who had neither ceased his yelling nor regained his composure.

Meanwhile, the skunk settled his tail into a less threatening attitude and waddled his way out the garage door into the night, doubtless thinking he should next time choose a better hour of the day to enter such a raucous psychiatric ward to hunt for delectable tidbits of edibles.



Now, you would think such an episode would cause a person with such a horror of skunks to be extremely cautious thereafter, when in known skunk territory.

But noooooooooo.

It wasn’t a month later that Larry, working in the garage one night, heard a rustling noise.  He spotted our Black Kitty scrambling about in a bag of garbage.

“Hey, get out of there!” he said, brushing at her bushy tail.

She backed out.

Only it wasn’t Black Kitty.

It was a polecat.

for Aaron, 21


Instead of the skunk getting out of there, Larry got out of there.  And not very elegantly, either.  In fact, I do believe he broke his own record at Backwards-Step Speed-Climbing.  Once again, the young’ns were on hand to enjoy the spectacle.  They do not go too long without retelling the story.  Their own children must learn these GPH (Great Pieces of History), after all!

By Thursday night, it was 21°, and the windchill was 7°!  Brrrrrr.

Another hurricane, this one named Nicole, hit Florida.  My cousin Fred, who lives approximately in the middle of Florida, posted a note on his Facebook page:  “I did not realize I had subscribed to the ‘Hurricane of the Month’ club!”

I like to look up hurricane stats.  Here’s one:  In October 2005, a hurricane hunter plane measured a barometric pressure in the eye of the Category 5 Hurricane Wilma of just 882 millibars – the lowest ever recorded for an Atlantic hurricane.  It had wind speeds of 185 mph.

for Emma, 16


I remember when I was little – 5, maybe? – a police car went by our house late at night, and an officer used his loudspeaker to warn everyone that there was going to be flooding.

All the houses around us got flooded; only our house was not, not even in the basement, because our house was on a bit of a hill, a little higher in elevation than the other homes.

for Ethan, 18


Across the street from us lived an older man and his adult daughter; the mother had died.  When the waters got high, he put his daughter in a metal water tank and pushed her around in the water.  I stood at our big front window watching, and was highly concerned when the thing tipped up and spilled the girl, and she shrieked at the top of her lungs. 

I ran for my mother.  She, after a quick look out the window, assured me I needn’t worry.  “No one can scream that loudly if they are drowning,” said she.  😂 

for Nathanael, 16


The Boxcar Children down the street (so called because they truly did live in a boxcar [which at one point had some sort of siding put on it], set back from the street and near the alley that ran behind our house) were allowed to play in the street.  I asked if I could, too, and my mother responded with a resounding “NO!” – unusually adamant, for her.  I did not ask again.  She pointed out the swirling water near the culverts at the corners of our street, and told me a child could go right down those drains.  The current in the street was swift enough, if a child should fall down, he might not be able to get back up, and it was a good 2-3 feet deep.

for Carolyn, 5 – my jewelry box from when I was about her age.


I made good use of the box Larry’s phone came in.  The pin was Norma’s.



She worried over those Boxcar Children, especially after we saw one standing on the curb in knee-deep water, staring down into one of the drains.

Daddy then told her not to worry, because those kids were made out of cork, and would float. 

Mama reprimanded him, quietly and in her ladylike voice:  “George!” 

One time when I was on my way to school (probably 5 or 6, since I was in first grade, I think, heading back after lunch), walking past that ‘house’, one of the younger children was sitting on the floor, leaning against the screen door, and it suddenly popped open.  He tumbled out, bouncing down the metal steps all the way to the ground.  I paused, wondering if I should go do something – but in seconds, his mother came shrieking and shouting down the steps after him.  He must’ve been all right, because he scrambled up and, tasting freedom, made a break for it.  He didn’t get far. 

for Elsie, who turned 6 today


I thought the scene around that place often looked like a chicken coop, with a loudly clucking hen dashing hither and yon after peeping, chirping, wayward chicks.  Except they were waaay louder than any chickens ever could’ve been.  The ground was nearly bare of grass, almost all of it nothing but dirt.  There was no topsoil on the ground, however; it was all on the children.

Not many years after that flood, a dike was built along the Loup River, and that has saved our town from flooding many times since.

Thursday, I baked the pork roast and steamed some broccoli to go with it.  Victoria asked Larry to stop by after he got off work, as she had made us a big dish of pumpkin-apple crisps.  Mmmmm, it was sooo good – and it was in such a big dish, there was enough for three more evening desserts thereafter, even though Larry had convinced her to take out a healthy helping for her own little family.

for Keira, 3.  Polar bear book is on the way.


Since I had most all the Christmas gifts wrapped or bagged that I had on hand, and other gifts were still on the way or still needed to be ordered, I spent a good part of Friday doing some serious computer upkeep.  My one-terabyte drive was too full for comfort, and I needed to put a whole lot of data on my external hard drives and remove some of it from the laptop.

That always makes me nervous, deleting folders full of pictures from the laptop.  I check and recheck the hard drives, making sure everything is all there, and then... holding my breath... delete the photos from the laptop.

That afternoon, I got sidetracked watching a little white-breasted nuthatch on the suet feeder.



Look at this – we recently went through the little town of Taylor, Nebraska, on our way home from Wyoming, and I looked up The Villagers and the Taylor Juniper online and read about them... and Friday there was an interesting article on News Channel Nebraska:  A Taylor-Made Mystery

Here’s an interesting follow-up article about the mountain lion that traveled over 700 miles to go from western Nebraska to southern Illinois, plus a lot of beautiful pictures of Nebraska’s wildlife:  Mountain Lion & Other Nebraska Animals

Friday afternoon, I went and picked up an order at Wal-Mart.  Included are some packets of Martha White’s muffin mix – strawberry, blueberry, banana nut, etc. – because I found four miniature muffin tins in my stash of Christmas gifts, perfect for four of the little granddaughters.

I got everything on my computer backed up on two external hard drives, and then deleted enough data from the computer to get the used space down to 697 GB, freeing up 255 GB.  (A 1TB drive has a data capacity of about 952 GB.)  So that gives me quite a lot of breathing room.  I won’t have to worry about it again until I’m all done scanning photos.

While I had the external hard drives plugged in, I checked the tally on my newest big (4TB) external hard drive:  counting the printed photos I’ve scanned and photos taken since using digital cameras from 2004 on, I have a total of 281,964 photos, all labeled and sorted carefully into 4,638 folders.

for Brooklyn, 1


I need to go to Radio Shack and find a couple of adapters that can plug the 2TB thumb drives into Android phones (they need USB C plugs, as opposed to lightning plugs for iPhones).  Only two of the kids have Android phones – Hannah and Joseph.  The adapters I ordered from Amazon don’t quite have big enough openings on the USB side for the thumb drives to fit into.  Why aren’t these things uniform?!

A friend told me she was listening to a new CD she’d gotten – a choir from Pembroke College in Cambridge, England, singing ‘Christmas songs’.  I looked it up on YouTube, found the entire album, and wrote to my friend, “Now we can listen to the album ‘together’!”

Pewter tie tack for Leroy, who will be 11 in two days.


I clicked ‘Play’.

Hmmm.  They have a loose interpretation of both ‘Christmas’ and ‘song’. 

My friend evidently agreed with me, because after a bit, she wrote, “Some tracks are more beautiful than others.”  A few minutes later, “Track 11 is, ahhh... well... maybe they were warming up?”

for Joanna, 19


I obligingly sent her a short clip of Barney Fife:  Voice Lessons

After some time, she wrote again:  “OK, I’m on track 21 of 21.  There are some parts of some songs that are very lovely... but overall I would say I now have a better understanding of why the Pilgrims hopped on a ship and headed West.”  ((...pause...))  “Just saying.”  🤣

Meanwhile, I almost made it to song #2 – and then had to skip forward and play #11 when she mentioned it.  I listened to about 20 seconds of it.  That was enough.  In fact, I was done.  I went back to listening to the Old Fashioned Revival Hour Quartet.  Infinitely better.

A couple of hours later, my friend, who doesn’t give up easily, wrote, “I’m listening to the CD again as I do other things...”  It wasn’t two minutes before she emailed again:  “I’m about ready to board the Mayflower.”

“Haha!” I responded.  “Be sure you don’t fall off the edge of the earth.”

Larry went out deer hunting Saturday morning.  He was on State lands, and right now it’s archery-only there, so he took his compound bow.  Blinds are allowed, but cannot be left overnight; so he rigged up a little wheeled trailer for his blind and ladder that he can pull behind his bicycle.  It was 24°, with an expected high of 29°.

He drove into the general area where he wanted to hunt, having checked it out the day before.  He unloaded his bike and trailer from his pickup, hitched up the little trailer, and pedaled off. 

It was harder than it sounds. 

The area is hilly, and the ground is uneven, rutted, overgrown with weeds, and sometimes deep with sand. 

But he eventually got to the location he had chosen and set up his tree stand.  He leaned his bow and arrows against the tree, climbed up to be sure he had the stand exactly where he wanted it –

You know what’s coming next, don’t you?

Well, don’t you??

He heard a noise.

He went very still, and slowly turned his head.



Yep.  It was a big ol’ buck, slowly strolling into range.

And his bow was at the base of the tree in which he was sitting.

There he sat while the deer moseyed through and went his merry way.

Larry scrambled down as quietly as possible (or so he says; but remember, he’s hard of hearing – his ‘quietly as possible’ might very well sound like a bull in a china shop), gathered up bow, arrows, doe call, and whatever else he thought he might need.  Then he shinnied back up into his blind, got himself all situated, and made use of the doe call.

The buck, who had probably watched the entire fiasco and then vamoosed Stage Left, neither answered nor returned.  The only thing Larry heard or saw the rest of the morning were squirrels.



Since the administrator at the nursing home had emailed to say that all the residents had tested negative for Covid the last time they checked, we were able to visit Loren that day.

He was nowhere to be found when we got there at about 5:30 p.m.  We made the entire circuit, checked his room, went down the north wing, and then enlisted the help of the nurses.  They finally found him in someone else’s room.  One of the nurses told him he had company, and he promptly came trotting out, smiling and glad to see us.

for Willie, 9 months


He said happily, “Both of you have come to see me this time!” – which tells me plainly that he does indeed remember when Larry isn’t able to come with me, and he misses him when he’s not there.

We headed to Loren’s room, but he got sidetracked by a couple of ladies who looked like they could be visitors, though a short conversation with them made it clear that if they were not residents of the home, they should be. 

for Juliana, 8


They asked Loren as we tried hurrying past, “Where’s your wife?”

He immediately stopped, and with a pondering face, said, “She’s not home yet!  But she’s getting better, and she’ll be home soon.”

That makes me wonder if something has happened to his friend Roslyn.  She was definitely not at all herself (that is, her usual confused but talkative self) the last two times I’ve been there. 

for Emma, 16


People came congregating around, as they often do, and I, being up ahead of Larry and Loren, couldn’t get back to him to urge him on. 

“Can you get him to come?” I asked Larry over the heads of a lady in a wheelchair and a stooped little man with a walker.  The lady was asking me something about the man’s walker, but her question didn’t make a lick of sense, and I couldn’t figure out what she wanted to know.  I smiled at her and said, “You have such a pretty, bright red fleece blanket.  Is it warm?”  (It was draped over her lap.)

“No, there’s been a blizzard,” she told me, gesturing with both hands in the air.

“Good thing you have the blanket, then!” I grinned at her.  She smiled back.

Meanwhile, Larry meandered closer to Loren and stood smiling at him, on the chance that this might convince him to abort his conversation and come along.

It did not.



Three tiny pewter figurines for Levi, 12


My back hurt.  My feet hurt.  My patience hurt.  My eyes wanted to squint shut.  I carefully threaded my way between people, smiling at them as I did so (some even smile back, once in a while), marched purposely toward Loren, and when he looked to see who was bearing down upon him, I waved the bag of magazines and newspapers I’d brought and said, “Let’s go to your room!  We have some things for you.”

That brought him right pronto.

I turned and rushed off, with Larry and Loren trying valiantly to stay up.

The horde gave chase, but, fortunately, nary a one of Loren’s fellow residents can stay up with him, despite his having broken a hip a few months ago.  I got to his room, pressed in the code, and opened the door.

“She always manages to hit the right buttons somehow,” laughed Loren, who hasn’t the faintest notion what the code might be.

This visit was different than most, as Loren had a number of Big Stories that he launched into entirely without provocation.  He said, “It’s lucky that you found me here, because I’ve been away for a couple of days to a town up north—”  He considered, frowning intently, then shook his head.  “I can’t remember the name of the town.  It’s to the north.”  He gestured in a northerly direction.  (He actually knows which way is which in that home, despite its maze of corridors.)

I am nothing if not a Helpful Hattie.  “Fargo?” I asked.  He knows Fargo, North Dakota, as my mother’s family lived near there and Mama and my three older siblings lived there when Daddy was in the Navy.

He shook his head.  “Moorhead?”  (Moorhead is Fargo’s ‘twin city’ to the east, over the Red River in Minnesota.)  “No,” said Loren, starting to shake his head.  I fired off a volley of other town names in quick succession:  “Edmonton?  Jasper?  Juneau?  Anchorage?  Nome?  Barrow?”

He started laughing.  “I didn’t go that far north!” he protested.  He looked at Larry.  “She thinks I went to Alaska!” 

How ’bout that.  He remembered where some of those cities are located.

I wonder, did they take the residents on an outing recently, and that’s why he thinks that?  I should check their calendar.

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Well, it looks like the only recent outing was their usual Tuesday morning drive.  I don’t know where they went, but they never go too awfully far afield.  Sometimes Loren’s wild notions have a basis on fact; sometimes they’re ideas seemingly pulled from the Great Blue Sky.

for Keira, 4


I gave him a new calendar we just got from BIEM (Baptist International Evangelistic Ministries).  The pictures show scenes from Russia... Ukraine... Turkey... various places where BIEM missionaries are working, and there are little stories about the photos on each page.  We support missionaries in Ukraine, and we used to support one in Russia, too, until he and his wife both passed away.

One of the calendar pictures shows the Uchisar Castle in Turkey, with a missionary and a group of student pastors in the foreground.  Here’s the Uchisar Castle:



Loren simply could not comprehend that I had not been there; I had not taken the picture.  Finally I said, “That’s on the other side of the world.  I’ve never been to the other side of the world.  The only other countries besides ours that I have been to are Canada and Mexico.” 

En route to Omaha, with the setting sun behind us.


That seemed to sink in – but then he pointed out various spots in the picture and informed us, “I have been here, right here in the north area.”  He tapped a spot in the picture.

Mountains are always ‘up north’, no matter where on earth they’re located, right?  ’Cuz, you know, they’re UP (pointing skyward), and ‘up’ is ‘north’!  Right?



After we left, I told Larry, “He had ‘Go North, Young Man!’ on the brain!”  (Of course, it’s ‘Go West, Young Man!’, I realize.  But Loren was stuck in ‘North Mode’.)



Some have suggested we take Loren on a ‘field trip’ sometimes.  But...

Loren goes on field trips with others from the home.  He told us their bus is a very nice, very comfortable vehicle, and easy to get into and out of.

I’ve thought of taking him somewhere... but truly, I just plain have no desire to do that at all.  He’s fine... he never asks to go with me – and I don’t want him to start wanting to go with me, every time I leave the place.  I’ve seen a few others begging to go with their family as they leave.  That’s not fun for the resident or the family or the staff.  I think I’ll just leave well enough alone.

After leaving the nursing home, we went to Cabela’s to spend a couple of gift cards from some of the children.

A geode for Leroy, 11


I found a fleecy pink zippered sweater-jacket for Elsie, whose 6th birthday is today.  I got myself some soft, warm black and white plaid gloves with screen-touch fingertips, too, along with some thick fleece slipper socks (that I fully intended to wear on the way home from Omaha; but I wound up driving, as I did on the way there, too, because Larry was too sleepy to drive).  We also got apple butter, Uncle Buck’s bacon cheddar biscuit mix, and, ummm, some other foodstuffs that I can’t remember. 

((... going to look in the bag ...)) 

Oh!  Monkeybread!  That’s what it was. 

for Warren, 8


We ate supper at Cracker Barrel.  There was just enough left on an old gift card to pay half of the tip.  I had a grilled chicken maple BLT sandwich and loaded mashed potatoes – which consists of mashed potatoes with generous dollops of butter and sour cream on top, liberally sprinkled with chives and bacon bits.  Larry had meatloaf and loaded mashed potatoes. 

I like to get different things from the menu, so we can trade tastes of various foods; but if I ever order first, as I did this time, Larry promptly drools over my selection, and orders it, too.  😂

There’s a pair of cardinals in the bare lilac bush outside my window right this minute.  Such pretty birds they are.  They keep track of each other with little ‘chip-chip’ noises as they move through the branches, feasting on the berries of the Boston ivy.

for Emma, 16


I took Elsie her birthday present this afternoon after she got out of school:  the pink sweater from Cabela’s, a little red leather-like purse, and a mama bunny in a prairie dress and bonnet holding a baby bunny.  Janice made it; I found it in a bin at Loren’s house.  The bin was full of things Janice had intended to give as gifts. 

There was also a handful of photos floating around in that bin, including this one that I put in Elsie’s birthday card after scanning it.  At the far end of the table is my Uncle Kent and Aunt Pauline (my mother’s youngest sister), my parents, and Loren and Janice (in the red dress).  I wrote the names on the back of the photo, and pointed out to Elsie her Great-Aunt Janice, who sewed the bunnies we gave her.  In the background, there is Elsie’s other grandpa, standing and holding one of the twins, Elsie’s uncle.



For supper tonight, I chopped up the last of the pork roast and put it into a pot of country gravy along with peas, carrots, and green beans.  I made Uncle Buck’s cheddar bacon biscuits to go with it.

When I was choosing the menu, I rummaged in the cupboard for some rice I thought was in there, but some time back, evidently, something leaked – probably corn syrup – and it has now petrified into something resembling a lava deposit.  I will probably need some dynamite to get it out.



Lydia sent me this picture she took on her way home from Omaha today.  (Yes, that’s snow on the ground.)  “I wish I could send that picture to the Dodge owner,” she remarked.  “They would probably like that.”

I sometimes used to get people’s email addresses, if I took a picture I thought they’d like.  Most appreciated it – but one lady acted like she should probably keep her finger on her panic button, just in case I got any weirder.  😂

Nowadays, one can ‘Airdrop’ with iPhones, or do a ‘Nearby Share’ with Android phones, without trading personal info.  That scaredy-cat woman would probably think it was an air raid, though, rather than an airdrop.

“I just got home,” Lydia told me, “and everyone yelled, ‘MAMA’S HOME I’M HUNGRY!!!!!’” 

“Haha!” I answered.  “Dogs and all?”

“Yeah,” replied Lydia, “in their own way! – They started barking.”  😄

I just found a couple more pictures of Loren on the nursing home’s Facebook page.  In this one, he’s playing Bingo – which is apparently a very serious business, as you can see. 



In the other, he’s mixing up ingredients for pet treats for the various animals that come visiting.



Who would’ve ever guessed that, after all these years of his not being about to cook a thing but eggs and toast, he now helps make pet treats.  And he looks downright pleased about it, too!

Bedtime!



,,,>^..^<,,,          Sarah Lynn          ,,,>^..^<,,,




Saturday, November 12, 2022

Photos: Drive to Omaha

 Driving to Omaha to visit my brother.  The sun was setting behind us, making for some pretty colors and lighting.  The Canada geese were choosing their evening resting places.




















Monday, November 7, 2022

Journal: Songs & Stuffed Toys & ... Hummus

 


Last Monday, October 31st, would’ve been my mother’s 105th birthday.  She passed away December 12, 2003, at the age of 86.

One time when she was in the hospital’s long-term care section for three or four weeks, a nurse would come in multiple times a day and ask questions to discern the state of the patient’s mind and cognitive status.  This got old, and not a little aggravating to Mama, though she was unfailingly sweet and compliant with her nurses.

I was there one day when the nurse came in to commence her interview for perhaps the third time that day.  She was one of those sorts who had procedure all down-pat – but truly had no (or very little) common sense whatsoever. 

“What is your name?” she queried.  Mama dutifully told her.  “How old are you?” continued the nurse.

Mama, in her sweet voice, asked, “What year is this?”

The nurse’s eyes widened, and she looked around at me, clearly thinking, I knew it!  She’s all confused, and going downhill fassst!

“It’s 2002,” the nurse told her primly in clear, pronounced syllables.

Mama smiled.  Anyone who knew her would’ve spotted that twinkle in her eye.  “Well,” she told the nurse, “I was born in 1917.  So now, what you do is, you subtract the year 1917 from the year 2002, and then you’ll know how old I am.  And maybe if you figure it out that way, you’ll remember, and then you won’t have to keep asking!”

The nurse, evidently as short on humor as she was on common sense, stood a moment, nonplused, then, with a small smile at Mama, she nodded and scurried out.  Mama grinned at me, and I gave up trying not to laugh. 

Last Tuesday afternoon, I heard a vehicle traveling slowly down our little lane.  It had a diesel motor, whatever it was.  I finally went and peered out the window — 

Well, how ’bout that.  People were having a wagon ride, right there on our lane!  That’s never happened before.  I don’t know what the wagon was being pulled by; the vehicle was behind the trees by the time I looked.  (And yes, it was a vehicle, as opposed to horses, unless horses now make low-pitched, rumbling, diesel noises.)

I got an email from the Executive Director at the nursing home that night telling me that they have one new resident that has tested positive for Covid.  (I don’t know if that means it’s really a ‘new’ resident... or if she just means they ‘newly tested positive’.)  So I wasn’t able to visit Loren again Saturday.

Wednesday was a windy, windy day, after a windy night, with gusts up to 45 mph.  But it was sunny and 67°.

That afternoon, I heard a racketing around in a lower kitchen cupboard.  I jerked open the door, and there was a baby mouse, trying his best to get a chunk of a peanut from one of the mouse traps.  He didn’t weigh enough to spring it.  He stared at me, looked at the peanut, looked back at me – and finally toddled away through the back of the cupboard.  I shut the door, went back to my recliner – and soon he was over there THONK-THONK-THONKING away again. 

I promptly ordered new mouse traps in a new-fangled design that are supposedly more sensitive.



Meanwhile, the mouse evidently ate enough peanut butter that he gained a sufficient amount of weight to spring the trap.  Bye-bye, baby mouse.  🥴

Thursday, November 3rd, was Larry’s 62nd birthday.  “Now I’m as old as you,” he informed me, “so you needn’t keep acting all superior and stuff!”

I vacuumed, dusted, cleaned the kitchen a bit, started a load of clothes, and then worked on pictures.  A bunch more clothes for the grandchildren for Christmas arrived; they should just about all be here now. 

A friend inquired into one of the pictures I took of a coal train.  Nowadays, 120-car trains are normal (though sometimes there are two or three times that many cars) with each car carrying roughly 120 tons.  Thus the capacity of a modern unit coal train is often around 15,000 tons per train.  Isn’t that amazing?



Here’s a picture I took as I headed to Omaha to visit Loren a couple of weeks ago.  Whataya know, one of the first trucks I met on my way out of town was my very own husband in his boom truck as he returned from a job.  That’s a big load of aluminum forms – 47 tons, to be exact.



As I’ve mentioned before, I have a wonderful old hymnbook that Andrew and Hester gave me for Mother’s Day called Hymns of Heavenly Harmony.  It’s by Bilhorn Brothers Publishing, copyright 1910.

One of the songs in it is called Grace As We Need, with the lyrics by H. L. Frisbie and the tune by P. P. Bilhorn.  The copyright of the song is 1909.  There’s a spot in the chorus where the top layer of paper is peeled away, and some of the words and notes are missing.  I put some notes back in, and a couple of the words – but just couldn’t think of two words – or one two-syllable word – that would fit in one last spot.

Just as I used to do in the years when I played piano for the church and found a line in a song that I didn’t care for, I begged help from my blind friend Penny.

“I’ll give you the words to the song,” I told her, “and then do you think you could come up with a word or words to fill in the spot?  I’ll write ‘blank, blank’ where the words or syllables are missing.  Here it is.”

 

1.            Not grace for tomorrow, or grace when I die;

But grace for the moment just now passing by;

God heareth and granteth when humbly I plead,

The grace that He giveth is that which I need.

 

Chorus:

Grace all sufficient, Grace which blank, blank;

God in all fulness, grace will supply;

Grace overflowing, Matchless and free;

God in abundance, gives grace to me.

 

2.            Not strength for the future, some far distant day;

But strength for all duties I meet by the way;

My weakness God marketh, but grace is decreed,

The grace that He giveth is that which I need.

 

3.            Not patience for crosses I never may bear;

But cheerfully lifting each burden of care;

Not heedless or careless in tho’t, word or deed

The grace that He giveth is that which I need.


4.            Lord, give me this grace in a measure that’s meet;

I ask for this gift bowing low at Thy feet;

Just what is sufficient for that I now plead,

The grace that He giveth is that which I need.

 

Fifteen minutes later, I got a reply:  “How about, take out the word ‘which’, and put in ‘ever nigh’?”

“That’s good!” I said.  “Thank you!  I knew you could come up with something appropriate.”



Penny then reminded me of the time I ‘fixed’ some bad lyrics in a song we wanted to sing as a special number.  Neither of us remember the original line or the song, either one; but these words fit right into the tune, and rhymed, too:

“He hiked up his britches and lit out on the run.”

Our singer of the evening, way back then, was not amused.  The rest of us thought it was hilarious.  And now, having reread it, I’m laughing all over again.

That was the sort of poetry that came easiest for me, by far.  😄

Friday afternoon, Amy sent pictures of Elsie’s bed with stuffed toys, including the one we gave her two or three years ago that started the entire collection: 




“She made her bed today with all of her stuffed toys,” wrote Amy.  “It took her a long time to get them all just right.  Suppose she’ll have a hard time sleeping with that many eyes staring at her?”

Larry and I got each of the five little granddaughters big-eyed stuffed toys at Nebraska Furniture Mart for Christmas of 2019, I think it was.  We hunted through the store, and I finally reluctantly chose them because there just weren’t any other toys for the little girls.  I wasn’t particularly fond of them – but the little granddaughters all loved them.  We were trying to get all our shopping done at Nebraska Furniture Mart, because we had credits on our account.

Amy then sent a picture of Warren, dressed in a suede and leather cowboy hat and a leather jacket that she had found at the Goodwill.



“It’s nice enough that I’m not sure it should be ‘play’ clothes,” said Amy, “but today it was for that ‘criminal’ look!”

“Ha, pretty cute criminal, if you ask me,” I responded.

Here’s Elsie, also in a cute little outfit they got at a secondhand store. 



I sorted and bagged Christmas gifts that day, and felt like I barely made a dent in my list.  I stopped for a bit to fix supper:  Uncle Buck’s Bacon Cheddar biscuits from Bass Pro Shop (one only needs to add milk and cheddar cheese), baked pollock, California Blend vegetables, and pecan sandies for dessert.

Some quilting friends were discussing trips to the grocery store, with or without their husbands, and which way they preferred to do it.  One lady told of her husband putting things in the cart that she didn’t need, which reminded me of the times when Larry and all the kids, however many there were at the time, would all come along when we went shopping.

We didn’t have pennies to spare, so we’d make a big fun excursion out of going to the store.  I didn’t piddle around; I had Stuff to Do and Places to Go; but we had fun at the store.

BUT! – I learned to pay attention, and find out just what was so funny, if any of the kids looked like they were trying to keep from laughing.  Time and again, it was because their father had loaded up the cart with a dozen boxes of Orios or something.  I’m one of those odd ones who doesn’t like Orios.  Too cloyingly sweet to suit me.

But more, I was very careful about what we ate, sticking to vegetables and fruits for the most part, with not an overabundance of meat, but as good of cuts as we could afford.  I made bread with whole grains, and when we had dessert, it was homemade, and usually something with fruit in it, and easy on the sugar.  So the stack of Orio cookies was always a big joke.

Other times, I’d look around and discover the cart piled high with bags of potato chips.  haha  I never bought potato chips.  I have never liked them, and they aren’t what I ever consider ‘good for you’.  To this day, if I’m not paying attention as we pass the food around at a picnic or a reception of some sort, Larry’s likely to put a handful of potato chips on my plate, just to hear me exclaim and rake them all onto his plate after I look down at my plate and see them.

Anyway, it sure made the kids laugh, when Larry would heap the cart full of junk food.  Sometimes he would suddenly point, gasp, and say, “Look over there!” – and while we all looked, he’d tuck one of the little ones under a clothes rack, with admonitions to “keep very, very quiet”.  (They invariably giggled and gave away their whereabouts.)

Friday evening, I found a picture on Prairie Meadows’ Facebook page of Loren (standing, with the cap on) petting one of the little goats Scatter Joy Acres had brought to the nursing home for everyone to enjoy.



Every once in a while, I remember days gone by and am thankful that I’m not checking SpotTrace and Vyncs Tracer to see where Loren might happen to be right now.  I tried hard to help him be independent as long as possible, and I’m glad I did.  But, oh my, the last three years were stressful.

When Larry came home that evening, he told of driving his truck on a county road about 90 miles to our northeast, when a tawny-colored animal went loping across the road some distance in front of him.  Wow, that’s a big coyote, he thought, and then immediately thereafter, That’s no coyote! – It’s a mountain lion!

This picture is from National Geographic.  Nebraska probably has about 60 resident mountain lions.



Saturday was the end of Daylight Saving Time. 

“Yayyy, I get another hour to do Stuff & Things today!” I said to a friend.

Yes, yes, I know that the extra hour is after midnight.  But you see, I consider ‘today’ that time during which I’m awake, from the time I wake up until the time I go back to sleep, never mind whether it’s a.m. or p.m.  ‘Nighttime’ is that time during which I sleep, regardless of what the clock says.

I don’t mind this ‘falling back’ part; but the ‘springing ahead’ thing is a pain, as I invariably lose an hour of sleep on a Saturday night (sometimes on the night before Easter! – that’s really a pain), which is when I have the most difficult time sleeping in the first place, making Sunday School and church the following day something of a chore through which to stay awake. 

I made Charles Dickens proud with thet thar sentence, I did.

Since I couldn’t visit Loren, I spent the day sorting and bagging gifts.  Why do I never have enough toys, tools, gadgets, and whatnot for the boys?  And why are boys’ toys, tools, gadgets, and whatnot so expensive?

That evening, we went to Walmart to pick up some groceries I had ordered.  We stopped at Walkers’ shop on the way home to put a little more air in the tires, and then Larry decided to wash the Mercedes in the big wash bay.  I retired to the company break room, as it was cold in that bay, and I didn’t have a coat. 



My new mouse and mousepad with the gel wrist rest have done wonders for my wrist.  It isn’t hurting at all, and hasn’t for the last three or four days.

Time to get back to the wrapping and bagging of Christmas presents!  I will need to get a few more toys, books, tools, and so forth.  I like to give the children ‘sets’.  If I have a cute stuffed fawn, I look for a book about fawns.  I had a large stuffed tiger... forgot it was a tiger and thought it was a leopard... ordered a nice book about leopards from Wild Kingdom... went downstairs to my gift-wrapping room and discovered the ‘leopard’ was a tiger – and then of course I had to order a book about tigers, and a stuffed leopard. ðŸ˜„

I had an adorable little stuffed Simba the Lion King, and found a small, cute Simba chunky board book; that’s for Baby Willie.  The fawn is about the same size as the stuffed Simba, and I found a chunky board book called ‘Little Deer’ – that’ll be for Baby Oliver, who is just five days older than Baby Willie.  Having 27 grandchildren means we can’t spend a whole lot on each of them; but we can at least give everyone something cute or useful.  I got a nice clothing item for each, and didn’t break the bank doing it.  

Here’s what I do:  I go to eBay, enter the child’s size, then click the following options:  New with Tags, Shipping from US only (so it gets here on time), Buy It Now (I don’t want to fuss with auctions), and finally, Lowest Price First.  Then I scroll through any junk offerings until I get to those items nice enough to give as gifts.  In so doing, I wind up with such things as this soft, beautiful Adrianna Papell blouse for Joanna for $11.99 (shipping was free) – and it still has its $79 price tag on it!



I’ve refilled my feeders again, and there are Northern cardinals, blue jays, American goldfinches, English sparrows, the migrating Harris’ sparrow (largest sparrow in the U.S.), and dark-eyed juncos coming to the buffet.  I hear Eurasian collared doves; soon they’ll be strolling about the deck picking up seeds the other birds spill from the feeders.  A couple of nights ago, a little opossum was scavenging seeds from the ground, one story down from the back-deck feeders.

I have an essential oil diffuser going, this time with some drops of Rose oil from Rainbow Abby.  These are some of the best oils I’ve found besides Young Living, which is over my budget.  Rainbow Abby is quite affordable, and they have all sorts of scents that I really like.  I am not fond of tea tree, some eucalyptus oils, and wheat grass scents.  I prefer mulberry, lemongrass, rose, lilac, jasmine, lavender, citrus, and suchlike.  I don’t put a lot of drops into the diffuser, and I run it on low speed, so the aroma is not strong, but quite pleasant. 

Here’s another picture I found today on Prairie Meadows’ Facebook page:  Loren is feeding the Golden Retriever ‘Tank’ a pumpkin biscuit he helped make. 



People can take their pets in for the residents to see, and there are nearby farms that bring in all sorts of animals, such as little goats, chickens, miniature horses, and suchlike.  Somebody brought in a baby ferret, not long ago. 





Friday night, a friend excitedly wrote to tell me she had purchased however many Powerball tickets $15 buys.

I, knowing she would not be offended, promptly replied, “What?!  You wasted $15?  You could’ve bought a 1 ½ lb. bag of Southern Pecan coffee beans from Boyer’s, for that!”

The next night, she wrote to say that she scanned her tickets and gotten a notice saying, “You won!”  (Scanned... where?  How?  I know nothing about these things.)

She continued, “I don’t know how much, but I do know it’s not very much.” 

(How does she know?)

“Maybe it’ll cover the price of one of the tickets!” I returned in my cheery, encouraging way.

Turns out, she won $12. 

“What shall I do with the $12?” she inquired.  “Invest in coal futures?”

“Hummus!” I responded.  “I think hummus is the investment of choice.”

My gift-wrapping room is calling!



,,,>^..^<,,,          Sarah Lynn          ,,,>^..^<,,,