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Monday, January 9, 2017

Journal: These January Days

Last Sunday night, partly because the medicine the doctor gave me for my eyes made me sleeeeepy, and partly because I would have been sleepy anyway, I accidentally made up for all those nights last month when I only slept 4 or 5 hours, and slept nearly 8 ½ hours in one fell swoop.  I clambered out of bed, then stared at the clock and thought, No wonder I’m stiff as a porch pillar!  (I said that once, a waaay long time ago, and a couple of days later, Victoria, who was about 5, announced that she was ‘stiff as a pillar of the community’.  hee hee)
When I got up Tuesday morning, the temperature was 8° – and the wind chill was 29° below zero.  Brrrrr....
When I picked up the Jackson grandchildren after school that day, I gave them the pajamas Larry and I had gotten at Wal-Mart the night before, since Jeffrey’s had been mismatched.  I asked Ethan, the oldest, “Do you ever grow out of favorite things and have to hand them down before you want to?”
He nodded vigorously.  “I sure do!” he answered.
I remember growing out of a favorite dress that I had very badly wanted to save for my own little girl.  (I was only 8 at the time, but I liked to plan ahead.)  ;-) 
As we drove home, we admired the stratocumulus clouds fanning away from the setting sun.  It wasn’t even 4:00 p.m. yet, but look how low the sun was.  After dropping off the children, I skedaddled home, rushed into the house, snatched my camera, and ran upstairs to take pictures from the upper deck. 
I was a bit late with last week’s journal after coping with one interruption after another.  About the time I begin wondering if anybody ever reads all my blither, some li’l ol’ lady in Timbuktu gets all up in arms because I haven’t posted it yet.
Here’s Jonathan perched on Kurt’s lap at our family get-together.  The little kids always love Kurt!
Wednesday, Larry had the stomach flu.  He went to work anyway, as usual; but by evening, he was decidedly ill, so he stayed home from church.  He was under the weather all the rest of the week.  All the little Jackson kids were sick, too, as were a large number of the school children.
After church that evening, I mailed a package (Hy-Vee’s mail department stays open until 10:00 p.m.), made a deposit, and stopped by my friend Linda’s house to fix something in Eudora, her email program.  I’m not totally sure what I did, but I done fixed it!  Perhaps a change to computer or internet makes it try to go back to default, and its default brain is all screwed up.  Sometimes even a minor glitch can change settings in a program that only the user should be able to change.  If I knew why, I might could be a millionaire, since nobody else seems to know why, either!
And now, because a friend commented... I will admit that maybe I was one-sided in last week’s comments on the boob tube.  It’s just that I know a couple of lazy good-for-nothings who won’t take care of their families – but they will watch one movie after another!  Makes me want to smash the set right down over their worthless skulls and make them wear it as a necklace.
I am not violent.  I just have a nice little red-hot Irish temper, is all!
I sometimes have scenic videos from youtube playing, and I especially like the ones with nothing but nature sounds, though I don’t mind a bit of classical music now and then, provided it isn’t that dull old-time-grocery-store variety.  And yes, sometimes the most jaw-dropping scenes come on, and I get all enthralled and forget to keep working at whatever I’m working on, and become totally mesmerized with the pictures.
I like the home renovating programs, too.  I enjoy those This Old House series where they totally redo old houses, while keeping the ‘personality’ intact.
Oh!  There are both a hairy and a downy woodpecker on the suet feeder!  ((...running for the big lens...))
!!!!!!!  I was peering out the window, under cover of the curtain, taking a picture of a downy woodpecker, and hearing what I thought was a nuthatch --- but it was so loud.  Suddenly I realized just exactly why it was so loud! – it was right next to me, perched on the edge of the windowsill, seriously contemplating coming right on into the nice warm house!  :-O  I slowly backed off to get a picture of it – and scared it away.  Just as well; we don’t need a loose nuthatch in the house, with all the cats trying to help me catch him.  Eeeeek.
I reported on this matter to a quilting friend, whereupon she responded, “A loose nuthatch in the house with the cats running after the bird and you running after all of them made a very nice picture for me.  A nuthatch in the nuthouse! :-D”  haha
Once upon a time, we were parked in the Walgreens parking lot waiting while Larry went in to get a prescription.  Teddy was 9 years old... so that means Dorcas was 10, Hannah was 11, Keith was 12... Joseph would have been 7 ½, Hester 4, Lydia 2, and Caleb a new baby.  It was snowing hard, and there were a good six inches of snow already on the ground, and nothing had been scooped yet.
A lady came out of the store pushing a cart – and immediately got bogged down; the cart wouldn’t go through the snow.  There was an incline she was trying to get down, and it was slick under the snow, and I was so afraid she was going to fall.  I was holding a sleeping baby... didn’t have on boots...  Keith had gone into the store with Larry...  So I said to Teddy, that timid child of mine with the big gray-blue eyes, “Oh!!!  Run quick and help that lady!  If you pull the cart instead of push it, and it’ll go.”
His eyes got bigger than ever, and he veewwwwy, vewy slooowwwly started reaching for the door handle.  I turned on his turbo booster by remote:  “Oh, hurry, hurry, run as fast as ever you can, before she falls!  Run, Teddy, run!!!”
The children did what Mama said to do.  Teddy jerked open the door and scrambled out, with me adding one last quick bit of advice:  “Be friendly, and smile!”
Teddy ran.  He approached the lady so quickly that he startled her, and I feared she’d fall on account of that.  But when he smiled up at her and offered to help, she let him.  He pulled the cart through the heavy snow to her car, and even put all her groceries into the vehicle for her.  I hadn’t told him to do that!
When he was done and started to head back with the cart, the lady gave him a quick little shoulder-hug and turned his ears redder than the cold could’ve ever done.  :-D
I wonder if Teddy ever counted all the times I said to him, “You can be shy, but don’t you ever let me catch you being unfriendly or unhelpful!!!” 
And now Teddy has nine young’ns of his own – and the older they get, the sweeter and more helpful they become.
 Thursday, I uploaded the last pattern for the Buoyant Blossoms BOM:  Buoyant Blossoms borders and sashings.  It will be free for one month.
Writing up the instructions, pictures, and measurements for these pieces took longer than for any other block in the quilt.
How far back can you remember?  A friend and I were discussing this recently, after I complimented her on the memories she is making for her little 3 ½-year-old granddaughter.
“Yes, she will ‘remember’ things from photos she sees,” replied my friend.  “She won’t have real recall from 3 ½ years of age.”
I, never unwilling to state my case, and plenty willing to do so adamantly whilst I’m a-statin’ it, replied in my diplomatic way, “Baloney.  BALONEY!!!  I have a distinct memory from an occurrence at age 18 months, remember well the poodle cake someone made me for my 2nd birthday, and from age 2 ½ on, my memory is full and overflowing with things that happened.  And I have few photos to bring about this ‘remembery’.”
I found the photo of that poodle cake, not so many years ago.  But here’s the thing:
I remember the cake.  I always did remember the cake, with its curly frosting ‘hair’ and little gumdrop eyes.  The thing I thought was so funny about it was, it was on Mama’s meat platter!  So silly, I thought, for a girl’s poodle birthday cake to be on a meat platter.  And I remember somebody having me rest the edge of the platter on the end table, holding up the cake a bit so she (Lura Kay?  Helen?) could get a picture of me, with my cake.
I clearly recall Mama worrying, “Oh, dear, don’t drop the cake!” and me thinking, A great big three-year-old girl would never drop her cake.
NOW.  Here’s The Rest of the Story:
In my remembering of this, I had believed it was my third birthday ------ until the day I came upon that picture again.
Guess what??  It was not my third birthday, it was my second.  There was the date, as big as you please, printed on the bottom of the picture as they used to do:  October 6, 1962.  And there on the cake were two candles, not three.
I had obviously been thinking, A great big two-year-old girl would never drop her cake! 
Other than that, my very early memories have nothing to do with pictures.  I knew people were skeptical about that if I ever mentioned it, thinking I was merely reciting something I’d heard someone else talk about, so I was really happy when my friend Penny came along, and in one of our many long-winded discussions, I learned that she, too, remembers things that happened when she was two.  She’s blind, so it couldn’t have been pictures that triggered ‘faux’ memories!  Maybe some of it has to do with how strongly a little child feels about some certain occurrence; I don’t know.  
All that, just because I was complimenting my friend on all the things she does with her little granddaughter.  J  She wouldn’t admit it, but I think I won the argument (if that’s what it was) quite handily, don’t you?
Kurt got his feet too, too cold that day.  Temperatures were just above 0°, wind chill was 30 below – and he didn’t have warm enough socks and boots.  Larry gave him some of those heat activator things to put in his boots, and some of the guys built a bonfire in the ‘hole’, as they call it, of the hog barn they were working on.  Trouble with a bonfire in the ‘basement’ is that the smoke doesn’t escape very well, and that didn’t sit well with Larry’s already-queasy stomach.
When he came home, Larry dug out his almost-new pair of extreme winter boots (2000-gram Arctics – or something on that order) that don’t quite fit him but that would probably fit Kurt perfectly, and took them to Kurt the next morning.  Kurt got himself some new thermal socks, too.  It’s no fun to be working outside in Nebraska winter weather, when you aren’t dressed warm enough for it!
Several little towns in the Colorado High Country closed for a couple of days that week so everyone could go skiing.  Some places got over 40 inches of snow, adding to a couple of feet that was already there.  I want to be there!  I want to be in a cozy little cabin with a big fireplace, nestled in a high valley with tall peaks all around.  I want warm clothes and snow shoes – and my camera, of course.
Friday, I was finally back in my sewing room, getting ready to cut fabric for the table topper for the previous Sunday night’s newlyweds.  The pattern is called Storm at Sea.  I drew up the design in EQ7 way back last year.  (That was last week, heh.)
Teensy was right on hand to help.  (Don’t worry; he moves when I start to sew – or I tell him to.  Don’t want to sew a trusting little cat’s paw!)
Every time I start on a project like this, I think, Hey, this is fun!  This is why I like quilting! 
My hand was much improved.  I actually played the piano that day, for the first time since the Big Bad Cat Bite.  As for my eyes, the medicine helps me at church somewhat, but I read all the side effects and don’t like what I read, so I won’t be renewing the prescription.  I’d rather look like a toad-frog in a hailstorm than have a new and different personality!
Saturday, Dorcas sent pictures of Trevor enjoying his first snow.  “It was funny,” she wrote; “his eyes got big and he quickly reached for more!”
That afternoon, Larry, in talking to Loren on the phone, mentioned that he was heading to town to get two or three space heaters because several of ours had gone kaput.  Loren immediately offered some of his – and brought them out.  There were four or five for us to choose from.  We kept three.  We tried to pay him for them, but he wouldn’t take anything.
One of the older heaters blows so hard, it dries out my eyes.  I’ll use it someplace where I can set it a distance away.
Speaking of hard-blowing fans... once upon a time, back when we lived in town, our air conditioner was on the fritz (during the hottest days of summer, of course), so Larry brought home a heavy-duty squirrel-cage fan from his shop and set it up in the hallway to cool the place off until the AC man could come and work on the unit the next day.
Mercy me, that was one powerful fan.  Three of the Littles wound up plastered to the front of the church on the other side of the street!
Lydia asked if I’ve tried my new Sizzix cutting machine yet.  I haven’t even gotten it out of the box!” I told her.  “It’s sitting right in the living room waiting for me – but first I have to finish Stephen and Melody’s table topper.  I did watch a couple of videos on youtube about the machine, but I need to actually make it work, while looking at manuals and tutorials, to understand it.  It’s my carrot on a stick, to make me hurry up with this table topper!”
That evening, Larry brought put up a new, long, LED light in my sewing room.  It sure is a lot easier to see, when there’s some light on the subject!
Several people have asked how much fabric they need for the Buoyant Blossoms quilt, and one lady wrote, “I just got this pattern from Craftsy. Where do I get the fabric for this beautiful quilt.”
I truly don’t know the answer to that question.  I need to make some educated guesses, I suppose.  “Trouble is,” I told her, “I didn’t buy a speck of fabric for this quilt; I just used bits and pieces left over from previous projects.  If you have no bits and pieces... why, then, just take a picture of the quilt with you (or your smartphone) to the fabric store, and ... have fun!  J
And then I got this comment on my blog:  “I was a little dissapointed [sic] when I downloaded the free quilt pattern and did not get what was shown on the quilt,it [sic iterum] is better not to give free patterns if they are not complete.”
Now, I have a tendency to take all things personal.  And I don’t like to take ’em lyin’ down, neither!  (Refer back to the ‘nice little Irish temper’ thing of Page 2.)
But I tried to answer in nothing but an explanatory and factual manner:
“This is a BOM (Block of the Month) quilt that has been going on for a year and a half. Perhaps you are not familiar with BOMs. Each month a new block is posted. Some are free; some are for sale. Mine remained free for a month.
“This last installment of sashings and borders completes the series, and the title at each of the download sites clearly states that this is for sashings and borders.
“And since this completes the quilt, I appropriately posted a photo of the finished quilt.
“If you don’t wish to purchase the previous BOMs, you can use the sashing measurements you have downloaded to go between 8.5” blocks, until you have a center layout of 44.5” x 62.5”, at which point you can add the five borders included in your free pattern.
“All patterns for the Buoyant Blossom quilt are available at my Craftsy and Etsy stores. Links are in the top right margin of this page.”
There.  I showed considerable restraint, don’t you think?  I then wrote to several of my online quilting groups to inquire into whether or not they thought I had somehow made it unclear that this was a BOM (Block of the Month), and this last posting was the final BOM of the Buoyant Blossoms quilt, and it includes sashings and borders, and not the entire quilt.
This is the first time I’ve offered patterns, and I’ve tried to watch how other, more experienced people do it, and have attempted to follow the best examples I find.  I certainly don’t want to make people think I’m offering one thing, and disappoint them with another! 
I shouldn’t take things so personal, I suppose; but it’s always a sinking feeling when someone writes with a complaint.  I looked back at my description and titles on my patterns, and it seems clear enough to me, ... but... 
Enough people wrote to assure me that it was perfectly clear that I felt much better.
I was a little peeved when I wrote my response to her.  But I tried not to sound all mad and bent out of shape... just precise and concise.  I looked back at my answer today, and I think it’s fine.  I think.  After all, I didn’t write, “Read, dummy, read!!!  What, do you only look at pictures before you download stuff, for cryin’ out loud?!  Try informing yourself before you pitch your little tantrums!”  I wish Bah-Humbugs would go bah-humbug themselves to death somewhere outa my living/breathing space.
Nope, I didn’t write that.  (Not even now.  Teensy Cat did it for me.  He’s a good and helpful cat.)
Kinda lousy to post complaints right on people’s blogs, rather than to write to them personally, isn’t it?  My email is available on each of my blogs.  Well, lousy, that is, unless the blogger deserves it, of course.
Me, all I deserve is this nice big steaming mug of Vanilla Crème coffee, made with fresh-ground beans.  Right?  Right?  And maybe a slice of sourdough bread, toasted and slathered with butter and some of this scrumptious Black Currant jam one of the children gave us for Christmas.
Do you ever hate to remove the cute little calico fabric topper to open a new jar of jam, thus spoiling its cuteness in the process?
But my mouth is watering...  ((...droooool...))
Oh!!!  Would you ever believe, there was still some of Larry’s yummy French toast from yesterday left?  So I toasted a piece just until it was hot... slathered it with butter... and poured a little bit of red raspberry syrup from Maple Groves Farm of Vermont on it.  Mmmmm, mmm.  Sourdough bread tomorrow.  J
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Later...

Some have asked if I would give discounts if a number of patterns were purchased at once.  I’ve thought about that, but now that I’m done with the quilt and the patterns, I’m going to put a little time and effort into trying to get the patterns published as a book, adding photographs of flowers and bits of poetry and whatnot on opposing pages.  So I will leave the prices as they are for now.  That way, if that book ever comes to fruition, people who’d like all the patterns, but don’t want to spend so much on them individually, will think, Oh, lookie, lookie, a book!  Gotta have it, gotta have it. 
A couple of weeks ago, Larry ordered a new derailleur for his bike, as his went to bits and pieces the last time he rode it.  It didn’t come when expected.  He looked at the tracking page online – and was informed it had been delivered Thursday.  But it wasn’t here.
Sunday evening, we were about to put in a lost-package complaint, when the box appeared mysteriously on the front porch.  The postal service doesn’t work on Sunday.  Obviously, it was yet another misdelivered box – and the neighbors evidently brought it to us while we were at church.  This is getting old!  Remember when Victoria’s invitations – complete with pictures of herself and Kurt – got left in the back yard atop the trash can?!  We found it a couple of hours before a huge rainstorm hit, with the invitations hot and warped from sitting in the sun.
Anyway, Larry brought his bike into the house and started working on it, but discovered a few things he couldn’t do, because he didn’t have the proper tool for the job.  This evening, Robert let him borrow his tool – something for the chain – and work on the bike in his garage.  I think it’s mostly back together now, except for a new spoke, which has been ordered. 

Half a dozen loads of laundry are washed, dried, folded, and put away.  Litterboxes are clean... the bathroom is scrubbed... Time to get back to the Storm at Sea table topper!


,,,>^..^<,,,       Sarah Lynn       ,,,>^..^<,,,



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