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Monday, October 14, 2019

Journal: Sorrows and Joys


In just a couple of weeks’ time, Keira is walking like anything.  Andrew, Hester, and Keira went on a vacation to Pilot Cove, North Carolina, a week ago, and Hester sent a video of Keira walking – doing noticeably better already.  Plus, she was multi-tasking – she was stirring vigorously in a little bottle as she went along.  She was sporting a big grin on her face (and a bow on a headband tumbling down rakishly over one eye).  She’s such a happy little thing. 
Hester sent a picture of the view from their deck in Pilot Cove, and there was Keira, trotting across it big as you please.
Monday night, I found a youtube video showing ten ways to use the Mix ’N Chop tool (do you think I should write to Pampered Chef and tell them how to make the apostrophe in front of the N curve the right way? – they have it as ‘N) (and that they should make the N lower case?).  The video depicted ten different types of foods being twirled, mixed, swirled, and chopped.  One of those foods was ‘polenta’.  What in the world is ‘polenta’? I wondered.
*doing research* ...   ...   ...
Okay, I done larnt me what polenta is, and it turns out I used to make it all the time:
Polenta is a dish of boiled cornmeal that was historically made from other grains.  It may be served as a hot porridge, or it may be allowed to cool and solidify into a loaf that can be baked, fried, or grilled.
I’d cook it at night and pour it into loaf pans.  The next morning, I’d slice it and fry it in butter, and we’d put syrup on it.  I haven’t thought about that for years.  I really liked it.  ’Course, I didn’t boil it plain; I put some salt in it, and after it cooked, I added a little sugar.
Loren and Norma gave me $$$$$ for my birthday, and I used it to get all sorts of fresh fruit and dairy products, which we’ve been enjoying ever since.  Mmmmm...

I spent Tuesday appliquéing hexagons onto the center panel of the Atlantic Beach Path quilt.  Someone wrote to tell me it would be easier if I did one side at a time, rather than gluing and pinning the entirety of the hexagons on all at once.
That might work sometimes, but since this one is king-sized, I wanted to be sure the panel was perfectly centered in the middle of all the hexagons. And I knew there wasn’t even half an inch of wiggle room. Sooo... I laid it on a big table, positioned... measured from side to side and from corner to corner... repositioned... measured... repeated (several times)... and then glued the edges under, and finally pinned them before picking it all back up again and heading to the sewing machine.  Perhaps I could’ve made it work, doing it one side at a time, but... 😏 🤓

By 7:30 p.m., I was all done with the central appliquéing.  It took three hours.  I sure was glad for my new folding table beside me, which helps hold big things as I sew them.
I trotted downstairs to fix supper:  turkey and rice with summer squash (from the neighbors’ garden) and broccoli.  And lots of butter.  Scrumptious.
Wednesday I began working on the first border for the Atlantic Beach Path quilt.  I got one side pinned onto the border, and then it was time for church.

Lydia and the children (Jacob, Jonathan, Ian, and Malinda) came over that night after the service, bringing me some things for my birthday:  a soft, beautiful robe, soft leather gloves with touchscreen fingertips (exactly what I’ve been needing), and a pretty coffee mug. 
Late that night (or early the next morning 😏), I was almost done appliquéing the first border on the quilt (well, actually, the appliqué is the other way around – the hexagons are appliquéd onto the border) – but I ran out of fabric. 


I thought I might go to Country Traditions in Fremont Thursday, but it was cold, rainy, and windy that day, so I stayed home and scanned old pictures in my cozy little upstairs office.
This was taken at Yoho National Park, British Columbia, Canada, August 16, 1994, 25 years ago.  Too bad I didn’t hand my camera to somebody and get in the picture, too!

Here’s Lydia; she was 3 years old.

We crossed Lakes Kootenay and Revelstoke on the Canadian ferries that are part of the highway system (and therefore free), and we camped right alongside Kootenay near the little town of Balfour, British Columbia.


That's Teddy, walking toward the water.

That was such an enjoyable trip.
Teensy likes to be near me.  He was seriously hindering my progress in the scanning of pictures, because every time I sat down in my chair, he hopped up on my lap.  So... I went and got the cat mat my sister gave me, put it in the corner, patted it, and told Teensy, “This is your bed!”  He knows what ‘bed’ means.
He stared at me... stared at the mat... sauntered slowly over to sniff at it... turned his back... and sat down.  But as soon as I stopped looking at him, he stepped on it... pumped his paws on it... and laid down.
He tried it this way... that way... and finally found the perfect way to lie on it.
Friday afternoon, Larry called to tell me that Caleb and Maria had lost their baby that morning.  It was just too early, and he didn’t make it.  It was a little boy, and they named him Liam Everett.
Caleb and Maria, and the rest of us, too, have hoped and prayed, and we rejoiced with them when we learned they were expecting this baby.  Maria had had some trouble, but we had begun to think everything was going to be all right.
We are so sad and so sorry for them.
And to think some would destroy a little life like that, on purpose.  Horrible, horrible.
I believe with all my heart that all those who commit such crimes against the innocent are absolutely guilty of murder – and that includes all those who sanction it, too.  There is no doubt in my mind but that God is angry with this nation because of this.  He said very clearly that we are to hold life dear, because “man is created in the image of God”!
Some destroy... others would give anything to have an infant.
Larry told me that he had made a 2:00 p.m. appointment at Columbus Motors to have them look at the Jeep, as we’ve been getting a warning readout on the instrument panel telling us to service the 4wd system.  It was already almost 1:30 p.m. right then.  Larry had almost forgotten about the appointment.  Since he was working, I would need to take the Jeep there.  Aarrrgghh!  I needed to go to Fremont! 
I got myself in high gear, fixed my hair, ate something, and managed to get to Columbus Motors with a few minutes to spare.
And then I waited.
I sat in the customer lounge and waited... and waited... and waited.
I got stalled out in the Columbus Motors customer lounge for 2 ½ hours, because someone had accidentally double-booked the day.  The lounge was full of people who had been waiting for hours.  At least they were nice people.  I got to know a man in his early 50s whose wife at age 49 had to go into a nursing home.  He had cared for her for 28 years after she had a debilitating stroke, leaving her almost totally helpless.  I made friends with a young man who had his 5-month-old baby (who’d been a preemie) with him.  He’d been waiting an hour longer than I had.  He fed the baby... played with the baby... made the baby laugh...  The baby fell asleep.  The man conducted business on his phone until a dingbat from the service department came in and started talking to another couple in the loudest booming voice he could manage, despite the fact that he had looked right at that sleeping baby when he walked into the room.  The poor baby jumped out of his skin and woke up.  The father, rolling his eyes, got him out of his little carrier before he cried, and then he sang to the baby... changed the baby (in the restroom)... fed the baby... walked the baby... played with the baby some more...  I liked that young man.

They finally delivered the diagnosis on the Jeep:  it needs a new ($3,000) or rebuilt ($1,600) transfer case for the four-wheel-drive. 
I thought this was very bad news, but as it turns out, the ‘junk’ Jeep Larry bought a couple of years ago – just like ours, same year, same color, etc., but someone stole the entire dash and console out of it – has a perfectly good transfer case that he can use.  (Now I’ll have to apologize for bawling him out for buying the junked Jeep!  😏  He got it to use the undercarriage to build or rebuild another vehicle.)  (We tease him and say that he can build an entire truck out of nothing but a garbage disposal, a paperclip, and a bit of hair tonic.)
Meanwhile, I can still drive the Commander; it runs and shifts just the same as always.  Larry is somewhat suspicious of their diagnosis; we’ve gotten false readings before, and Columbus Motors has then given us faulty diagnoses. 

Getting out of there at 4:25 p.m., I needed to get to Country Traditions in Fremont before they closed at 5:30.  And it’s an hour’s drive, if all goes well. 
I wound up behind what I thought was a plumb skeert li’l ol’ lady (I can say that now, since I are a li’l ol’ lady, heh) ------ but it turned out, it was a plumb skeert young lady.  I declare, she slowed down to 45 mph every time the road curved.  And of course it was a two-lane road with heavy traffic, so I couldn’t pass.  Aaarrggghhh. 
Just look at this semi loaded with haybales!  His load has shifted, and those bales are listing far to the side.  Yikes.
The road from Columbus to Fremont is perhaps the flattest road in the whole state.  I like the hilly, wooded areas better. But the sky made it a pretty drive that day.
I think that road between Columbus and Fremont is the flattest part of the whole state.  But if you keep going east, you get to the hills and bluff all along the Missouri River; and from our house all the way to the western border, there are deep rolling hills with quite a lot of woods, both deciduous and evergreen.  To the north are the Missouri bluffs, too.  Interstate 80 is pretty flat, though.  People drive through the state on I80 – 455 miles – and they decide, ‘Nebraska is the flattest, most boring place I’ve ever been!’ 

I like the woods and the hills better than the flats.  We never take the interstate unless absolutely necessary.
I called Country Traditions and told them my dilemma:  I was on my way, knew exactly what I needed, and would they be really aggravated with me if I came skinning in at 5:29:30??
The lady laughed and said they would wait for me.
I arrived at 5:26 p.m., and departed at 5:30 p.m., so I didn’t keep anyone past closing.  Whew.
Thank goodness I took along a scrap of the fabric I needed, because the Stonehenge line by Northcott has no less than half a dozen slightly different gold-marble fabrics!  I’d have had to get pieces of every last one of them.  (Wouldn’t’ve I?)
Here are more pictures:  Trip to Fremont  I also posted pictures of Larry and I:  When We Were Very Young
I eventually cut that entire suit of Larry’s (jacket, vest, pants) down to a size 2T for Teddy.  That thing had all bound pockets... suit-shape interfacing and seam tape and shoulder pads especially for men’s suits... I did my dead-level best to make it equivalent to high-end suits of the day.  And I had an almost-new Bernina Record 830 to sew it on!
These pictures remind me of what Larry said to me when he asked me to marry him:  “I want to grow old with you.”
I was touched... and I felt the same... but wouldn’t you know, I just had to say, “Right now?!”
If we knew back then what all we’d go through, the good and the bad, the joys and the sorrows, it would be entirely too daunting, wouldn’t it?
I talked with Caleb on the phone as I drove home.  He sounded all right, and he said Maria was doing okay, too.  He said there would be a memorial service Monday morning at one of our local funeral homes.
The hope of the resurrection gets us through these heartaches.  We’re sad... but we know we will see our lost loved ones again, and that gives us much hope. 
When I got home, I fixed some supper, then headed up to my quilting studio to finish the border.
A couple of weeks ago, the lilacs rebloomed.  Now three spring-blooming hosta plants decided to bloom again.
Saturday, I began packing things for a trip to Wyoming.  More on that later...
Kurt, Victoria, Carolyn, and Violet came to see us that afternoon, bringing us some pumpkin/chocolate chip cookies Victoria had made.
Sunday night after our evening service, Caleb and Maria came over for a little lunch.  It was their 6th anniversary, and Caleb’s 26th birthday.  We love them so much.  They’re sad, but in good spirits.  How do people with no faith make it through troubles??  We need our heavenly Father for comfort!
We lost a baby on the very day of our 11th anniversary.  It wasn’t the same, for I hadn’t known I was expecting, and we already had six children, who were a comfort.  Then when Victoria was 2, we lost what would have been twins. 
Even when life is brand-new and barely begun, we dearly love those precious little ones, and mourn their loss.
They had a framed picture of the baby’s footprints and handprints ... so perfect, so unimaginably small.  Lydia made a little white satin and fleece blanket for the baby, and machine-embroidered his name in the corner with a beautiful font in glossy thread. It was under the tiny casket and the arrangement of white roses, which were all prettily arranged on a podium.
Such a tiny little box for the baby... and when Caleb carried it so carefully to the grave site, out at the cemetery, it made me cry.  
But, as King David said, “We shall go to him.”  We know he’s ‘Safe in the Arms of Jesus’, as the beloved old hymn says.
Here’s a picture of Caleb at 10 months, sitting on Larry’s lap somewhere in the northern panhandle of Idaho, on our way back from the vacation to Canada 25 years ago. He was such a happy little soul. Still is.
I gave granddaughter Joanna my white rose from atop the little casket stand, since we won’t be home this week.  We were going to Pavillion, Wyoming, to pick up a large air jack Larry purchased.

Since Pavillion is only 180 miles from the Tetons, we’re going to go on to Grand Teton and Yellowstone National Parks. 
While I finished packing, Larry went to have new tires put on the Jeep.  His friends at the tire shop offered him some new tires and wheels already mounted, which someone who’d just bought a new Jeep Wrangler had traded in on bigger, more aggressive tires and wheels.  They offered him a good price, and Larry took them up on it, since our wheels were oxidized and looking sort of bad anyway.

When he got home, he put new brakes on the front end and changed the oil.
Loren stopped by to pick up some split wood, and I ran out and helped him load it into his trailer.
We left a little before 6:00 p.m.  An hour later, on the other side of the village of Spalding, we were stopped at one of those self-serve, 24-hour gas stations with no attendant (that some people say do not exist), and I spotted a bald eagle on a nearby hay bale and had to get out and take his picture.
It’s a little blurry, because the sun was nearly down, and he was a long ways away.
A little later, a mule doe ran across the road in front of us, and we saw a coyote scavenging alongside the road, too.  The sun went down in a riot of oranges and turquoises and pale blues, with ribbons of bright yellow running through the streaks of clouds.
Larry and I had been wishing we could go on a vacation somewhere; but I figured our vacation money was in his mouth!  Literally.  In the form of dentures.
I’m very glad he hasn’t been coping with toothaches and abscesses and broken teeth, though.
Anyway, Larry came up with enough money for this trip, and it looks like the weather will be good, though a little chilly at night. 
George Beverly Shea (I used to say it all funny – ‘Borge Sheverly Bay’, etc. – just to mix up the kids and make them laugh) is singing, “How Big Is God... He’s big enough to rule the mighty universe...”  and before I finished writing that, the song finished and then our own church choir started singing (I’ve uploaded 2,298 songs onto the Jeep radio/player’s hard drive), “Then ask me not to linger long... ... for I am only waiting here to hear the summons, ‘Child, come home.’”  I dearly love these beautiful (and lively) old hymns.
Here we are at our motel, Trade Winds, in Valentine, Nebraska.  And a very nice one it is.  Time to haul in the bags!


,,,>^..^<,,,           Sarah Lynn          ,,,>^..^<,,,




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